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Back to School, Bad Movies and Martin Luther

August 15, 2019 by Lauren 26 Comments

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It’s that time of year.  I keep finding myself singing, “Gotta go back [guitar riff], back, back to school again.”  from Grease 2.  Please don’t close your browser over my bad taste in movies.  Over-the-top musical numbers aside, I do have a point.  Despite the miasma that is Texas in August (really, we are melting down here), it’s book hitting and bus riding time.

Watch the school zones, pack the lunch boxes and hold onto your graphing calculators.

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As we gather supplies and get our schedules in order I’ve been thinking a lot about my girls and all those they will encounter this school year.  I’m particularly cognizant of my little one.  At 5’9″ she’s not so little anymore.  High school and friends and new challenges beckon; much louder than I will in these next several years.  I know I haven’t always spoken kindly of my strong, stubborn girl.  Since my oldest is developmentally delayed, I’m in virginal territory parenting a typical teen girl.  And although some days it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do (at the start of summer I wasn’t sure we would both survive to this date), I now find I’m a little sad to think about being home without her in the middle of the day.  Well, with two part-time jobs I’m not home a lot in the middle of the day, but it was nice to catch up with her or sneak in an episode of 90210 together when I was.  I miss her already.

 

But it’s once again time for both my girls to shine their lights in bigger spaces.  And as preparation, God drew me back to a passage I prayed often over my bonus son during his formative years.  Philippians 1:9-11 NASB   “9 And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in real knowledge and all discernment, 10 so that you may [d]approve the things that are excellent, in order to be sincere and blameless [e]until the day of Christ;11 having been filled with the fruit of righteousness which comes through Jesus Christ, to the glory and praise of God.”  It’s always a little scary to send them out, but I have a promise from God that what He started in my girls, He will complete.  His purpose for them will be accomplished.  Look back at the same scripture passage linked above.  It’s all there.  

 

As we turn our thoughts toward academics and extracurriculars, I pray that I will keep first things first.  As important as classes and clubs and activities are, the most important growth and knowledge is spiritual in nature.  What my kids believe about God and their place in His plan supercedes all else.

 

I’m praying and planning all the things.  Praying for positive friend experiences, praying for opportunities to share the gospel, planning to be the biggest fan and cheerleader, and praying above all to extend love and grace to my girls in the same way God lavishes me.  Praying for the Holy Spirit to remind me that God is patient with me so withholding patience from my girls is not an option.  This is another year for maturation, not perfection.  Martin Luther described this better than I ever could:

This life, therefore, is not righteousness but growth in righteousness, not health but healing, not being but becoming, not rest but exercise.  We are not yet what we shall be, but we are growing toward it; the process is not yet finished but it is going on; this is not the end but it is the road.  All does not yet gleam in glory but all is being purified.  

 

Whether you are a student, have a student or love a student, I pray you THRIVE in Him.

 

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Encouraging Word Wednesday, Tune In Thursday,

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Faith ‘n Friends, Dancing with Jesus, Grace & Truth, Booknificent

 

 

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A Monthly Muster for May

May 30, 2019 by Lauren 32 Comments

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I love alliteration.  But I don’t historically love May, or Maycember as I’ve heard it referred as for the first time this year.  All the end of school activities make this month just as busy as December, but in my opinion, not nearly as fun.  On the day this goes live on the world wide web, my kids are experiencing their first day off for a much needed summer break.  From studies anyway.  Now that one of mine is headed toward high school sports, the athletic commitments never stop.

 

This month we have had 2 choir concerts, 2 athletic banquets, 3 year end celebrations, 2 volleyball tournaments and private lessons, a choir contest and audition, and more finals and state mandated tests than I can count on both hands.  And somehow we managed to sneak in a visit from our daughter-in-law and grandkids, 2 date nights – one with another couple, and getting the kids to both sets of grandparents.

 

In our SPARE time, we took our special needs daughter to see DUMBO (not earth shattering, but cute), and rented The Hate U Give as a family.  If you haven’t seen this movie, I recommend it for it’s poignant portrayal of modern day race relations, told from the vantage point of a teen.  That part is important if you want a 14 year old to watch with you.  And speaking of the constant search for something Miss I-have-all-the-entertainment-I-need-on-my-phone will watch and discuss with us, we have landed on Beverly Hills 90210.  The OG.  Starting with season 1.  I don’t mind at all taking a trip back to the cross country move of Brandon and Brenda Walsh, but my husband is less than thrilled.  He gets out voted, though, because my daughter is into it!  We also wrapped up season two of Cobra Kai.  I’m not sure I can recommend this one across the board.  There is more language and course talk than I usually indulge in, but the content was so much fun for this child of the 80’s.  One minute a 45 year old Johnny is driving his Camaro (yes, the same one) down the highway, and the next he is daydreaming back to the All-Valley Karate Championship.  So campy and fabulous.

 

In activities a little more cerebral, I picked up some good books.  Stolen Jesus:  An Unconventional Search for the Real Savior and Sacred Ground, Sticky Floors:  How Less-Than-Perfect Parents Can Raise (Kind of) Great Kids by Jami Amerine top the list.  If you have yet to discover this little gem of an author, I am pleased to make your introduction.  She writes beautifully real, broken and Jesus filled words.  She also blogs at sacredgroundstickyfloors.com.  Do yourself a favor and subscribe.  As a part of my ongoing efforts to improve this craft of writing, I devoured The Elements of Style by William Strunk Jr and Big Magic:  Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert – content as different as day and night.  And just in time for your light and breezy summer reading, It’s a Love Story:  From Happily to Ever After by Lincee Ray.  Inside this pretty pink jacket you’ll find funny, clever and touching personal anecdotes wrapped up in a Jesus bow.  She podcasts too for those obsessed with pop culture (and especially the Bachelor franchise).  I’m currently working my way through The Child From the Sea by Elizabeth Goudge.  This lengthy piece of fiction is like a cross between Ken Follett and L.M. Montgomery.

 

I found some new favorites that I want to share with you in case you happen to be in the market for some new favorites. 

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My current snack obsession is Enlightened Roasted Broad Bean Crisps in Mesquite BBQ flavor.  I know, I know.  What is a broad bean and how can they possibly taste good?  I don’t know and I don’t know.  But I LOVE them.  They are low in calories, high in protein and fiber, and gluten-free all while masquerading as a delicious, crunchy carb!  I’m also a new devotee of this Vitamin C Foot Cream.  As a passionate fan of the flip-flop, my feet stay about as soft as asphalt – until now.  I slather this lotion on after every shower and my feet are now as supple as 45 year old skin can expect to get.

 

I’ll round out the wrap-up with what is most important.  As God continues to prick my heart with lessons on obedience, I am listening to the audio book The Sacred Echo by Margaret Feinburg on the recommendation of my life group and studying Discerning the Voice of God by Priscilla Shirer with said Life Group.  Both books cover the topic of hearing from God in different ways.  I’m circling the Shirer book for the second time as well as God Moments:  Recognizing and Remembering God’s Presence in Your Life by Alan D. Wright.  I ordered this last one on a whim after telling a friend how ginormously it changed my prayer life years ago.

 

A Memorial Day weekend celebrating my daughter’s spiritual birthday and enjoying the company of family made the already-too-hot days a little sweeter.  I pray in the coming week you take time for that which feeds your soul.  Ready or not, summer, here we come!

 

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Mix it Up Linky, InstaEncouragements, Literacy Musing Mondays, Hello…Monday,

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BloggerClubUK, Tea and Word Tuesday, Purposeful Faith,

GraceFull Tuesday Link-Up, Different Dream,

Let’s Have Coffee, Welcome Wednesday, Recharge Wednesday,

Worth Beyond Rubies, #TellHisStory Link Up, Porch Stories,

Encouraging Word Wednesday, Tune In Thursday,

Stories of Hope, Moments of Hope, IHeart Verse Link Party,

A Blogging Good Time, Fresh Market Friday, Feature Friday Time,

Friendship Friday Blog Hop, Faith on Fire, Traffic Jam Weekend,

Faith ‘n Friends, Dancing with Jesus, Grace & Truth, Booknificent

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I love Jesus, my husband and caffeine. The order of these can change depending on how tired I am. When my two daughters, stepson, and 4 grandchildren get to be too much, I practice yoga. God graciously allows me to share our adventures, victories and flub-ups from my laptop. May He be glorified here.
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