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The Good Thing vs. The God Thing and Grace and Truth Link Up

February 7, 2020 by Lauren 28 Comments

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40 A man with leprosy[a] came to him and begged him on his knees, “If you are willing, you can make me clean.”

41 Jesus was indignant.[b] He reached out his hand and touched the man. “I am willing,” he said. “Be clean!” 42 Immediately the leprosy left him and he was cleansed.

43 Jesus sent him away at once with a strong warning: 44 “See that you don’t tell this to anyone. But go, show yourself to the priest and offer the sacrifices that Moses commanded for your cleansing, as a testimony to them.” 45 Instead he went out and began to talk freely, spreading the news. As a result, Jesus could no longer enter a town openly but stayed outside in lonely places. Yet the people still came to him from everywhere.

Mark 1:40-45 NIV

 

I can see this story, and many other miracles of Jesus, depicted in fuzzy flannel graph in my mind.  I’m not sure if the flannel itself was fuzzy or if my childhood memories, in general, have lost their sharpness in my middle-aged brain.  What I do remember is that Jesus’ instructions to this man confused me.  Be quiet.  Don’t tell anyone, He said.  What?  How could this man not tell EVERYONE about the most exciting thing that’s happened to him?  And furthermore, didn’t Jesus want others to know about Him?  The healed man obviously didn’t understand either and chose what HE thought was best – blabbing about the miracle to anyone who would listen.  And it hindered the ministry of Jesus.  Our Savior didn’t (and still doesn’t) just want people to know ABOUT Him.  He wants people to know HIM.  The crowds became too interested in the works He could do to listen to His message of love and forgiveness.

 

In Acts 22, we find the apostle Paul in a similar struggle of good vs. God.  After his dramatic and miraculous blinding and conversion, God speaks to him (Did you hear that?  He didn’t just have a feeling.  GOD SPOKE TO HIM!) and told him to leave Jerusalem to preach to the Gentiles.  And yet Paul argued that his own people knew his conversion story and would listen to him.  Bringing the Good News of Jesus to the Jews was a noble endeavor, but not what God had for Paul.  So like the patient Father He is, he calmly reiterated that Paul was to go.

 

Not even by taking off my socks and my shoes can I count the number of times I decided to forge ahead into something “good” without waiting for confirmation that it was from God.  I get overcommitted by jumping to fill a need that I don’t have time for.  And I get over my head when I tackle projects that aren’t in my wheelhouse.  More importantly, when I lack the discernment to decipher good deeds from God ordained ministry, I miss what God is inviting me to be a part of and potentially rob someone else of the blessing that was theirs.

 

What makes sense in my feeble brain is most often not God’s best.  Isaiah 55:8-9 NIV says, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,”declares the Lord.9 “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”  

 

Unless the Lord builds a house,
the work of the builders is wasted.
Unless the Lord protects a city,
guarding it with sentries will do no good.

Psalm 127:1 NLT

Now for this week’s featured post

Does Your Fresh Start Need a Fresh Start? by Lois Flowers

Oh how we beat ourselves up over those blasted New Year’s resolutions or the belief that things will be better just because the calendar page turned.  I know I’m in this category right now, but Lois offers sweet encouragement for us here.

Visit Waxing Gibbous here to read the post.

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link UpGrace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

Join us each Friday for the Grace and Truth Link-Up!

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3.) Visit 1-2 other links and leave a meaningful comment! We want to encourage community among us, so please don’t link and run!

4.) We sort all links randomly – feel free to link as early or as late as you’d like. The playing field is even!

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The Maiden Monthly Muster of 2020 and Grace & Truth Link Up

January 30, 2020 by Lauren 26 Comments

Does anyone else feel like January has been 87 days long?  I think I’ve lived many lives since New Year’s Eve!

 

Family

My Baylor Bears played in the Sugar Bowl on New Year’s Day, so we spent January 1st hanging, working a jigsaw puzzle and watching with my parents and my PawPaw.  We would soon learn that we are losing our beloved coach to the NFL, but word has it that His replacement brings a lot to the table.  Now I have to wait until August to find out!  Baylor basketball is coming in HOT (men’s team #1 and women’s #2), but alas, I don’t dig hoops.

 

Allie’s choir served as the chorus for her high school’s theater production of Mary Poppins, so we are fighting against with the urge to speak primarily in a British accent.  And others are struggling as they hear it!  Allie also attended LIVE weekend – a discipleship retreat for teens at our church.  We had 240 plus teenagers attend!   The worship, preaching, fellowship and small group time make it the best weekend of her year.

 

While she was doing that, Chuck and I escaped with the help of our parents to try to relax from the weight of family issues and recent tragedies.  Oh, and we celebrated 21 years of loving and supporting each other.  I can’t begin to explain how grateful I am that Chuck chose me and continues to choose me every day.  There is no one I prefer in the good times and we keep holding each other up through the bad.  Thank you, Lord.

 

Friends

I had the blessing of helping some great friends with medical appointments.  I took one to the hospital for hip replacement surgery and sat with her granddaughter for the duration.  The next day I went with a childhood friend to an MRI appointment.  Then I got to take a meal to a recovering mentor.  I know most of us – myself included – have a hard time asking for help.  I often feel like it’s an imposition.  But I can honestly say, it is such an honor for me to be asked to support a friend.  So don’t deprive me (or your friends) of an honor by trying to do the thing all by yourself.

 

Every week I get to meet with a group of women who refer to themselves as “life group misfits”.  We’ve all had trouble fitting into and maintaining a place in traditional church life groups.  But we found each other and call ourselves “Lady Friends”.  That name brings me almost as much joy as being in the presence of these precious, funny and real women.  And I finally had enough flex in my daytime schedule to squeeze in lunch with another lovely.  We had so much to catch up on that she brought a list of things to make sure we covered!  I loved it.  She made me feel like a celebrity being interviewed on a talk show!  Then the two of us and our husbands double dated the next night.  We planned to eat a progressive dinner, going to three different restaurants for appetizer, entree and dessert.  Well, it was Saturday night in a Dallas suburb  so we should have known wait times would slow us down.  We only made it two places, but had fun in the process.

 

Entertainment

When I could steal a few moments alone to read, I devoured Why I Hate Green Beans:  And Other Confessions about Relationships, Reality TV, and How we See Ourselves by Lincee Ray.  This felt like laughing and relating with a girlfriend.  And last I checked it was free on Kindle!  Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families:  The Five Love Languages for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities by Gary Chapman was a little disappointing.  I learned so much from his original Love Language book, so it seemed like a good idea to read this with a young mom I’m mentoring.  We found it, quite frankly, lame.  But it gave me one really good idea.  So there’s that.  And I finally came back to and finished Rosemary:  The Hidden Kennedy Daughter by Kate Clifford Larson.

 

We caved into some FOMO and subscribed to Disney+.  Our first show?  High School Musical the Musical the Series.  We loved it.  Clunkiest name for a series ever, but we pushed through.  And having all the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse videos available for Shelby on demand is both a good and a bad thing.  During the Christmas hiatus, I enjoyed catching old episodes of Wings, but now all our regularly scheduled programs are back in full force.  Plus, it’s awards show season.  Something I kind of like (as long as I can fast forward through the boring parts), and my husband kinda hates.  Even though we didn’t watch any of the Grammy’s, we watched Gayle King’s Grammy Special!

 

We only went to the movies one day this month, but made up for it by watching two in a row.  Knives Out is a fantastically fun Clue-style who done it with lots of twists and surprises.  Just Mercy wrenched my heart, opened my eyes, and called me to do better.  I highly recommend both. And I added a couple more podcasts to my earbuds.  After hearing at least 10 people rave about Dolly Parton’s America, I am now 4 episodes in.  So good.  I have never really been a Dolly fan, but she is pretty fascinating.  I also downloaded Showmance:  The Glee Recap Edition.  I loved the show (the first two seasons anyway), but the jury is still out on the pod. 

 

My husband and I still carry heavy burdens of grief and struggle for on-going things in our families.  We humbly ask you to continue to bring us and our loved ones before the throne of our Heavenly Father.  Your prayers mean so much.

 

Thanks for looking over my January with me.  What did you do in yours?

 

Featured Post

Today the featured post from last week’s link up is from Laura Thomas.  She shares a touching story from her own life to illustrate God’s faithfulness to us.  You will be so encouraged if you click over and read.

Now for The Featured Post

Treasures From the Sea:  Family Miracle, Faithful God

by Laura Thomas

 

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link UpGrace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

Join us each Friday for the Grace and Truth Link-Up!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

 

 

Maree Dee

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Lauren Sparks

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Heather Hart & Valerie Riese

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Grace&Truth-Rules2

1.)  Following your hosts via their blog and social media channels is not mandatory, but appreciated!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

2.) Leave 1-2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. Please do not link DIY, Crafts, Recipes, etc. We will delete these links. We also reserve the right to remove articles that don’t align with the theme or are deemed by the hostesses to be inappropriate.

3.) Visit 1-2 other links and leave a meaningful comment! We want to encourage community among us, so please don’t link and run!

4.) We sort all links randomly – feel free to link as early or as late as you’d like. The playing field is even!

Featured Post Requirements

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6.) Each host will choose one link to emphasize and promote via their social media channels next week.


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