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July is a Picnic – Except in a Heat Wave

July 29, 2022 by Lauren 8 Comments

Heat WaveIt feels even hotter than a heat wave, but as this publishes, my family and I are on the tail end of a week’s vacation. Did we wing off to Europe, down to Mexico, someplace tropical or are we escaping this southern heat?  Nope.  It’s college visits for us this year.  We went to Montgomery, Alabama and toured Auburn, went to the Equal Justice Initiative‘s museum and memorial and hung out by the pool. Montgomery may not be flashy, but my best friend and her people live there so that’s enough reason for me to visit!

 

We then hopped over to Nashville to tour Belmont and do the whole music scene.  My 17 year old songbird wanted book time in a studio to record a song herself.  We also planned a double decker bus tour and a trip to the Grand Ole Opry with a backstage tour.  The plan is to let her sing in the famous circle there.  I say that’s the plan because I’m writing this all before we leave home.

 

But let’s back up and take a look at the month gone by:

 

We decided to go back to my in-laws lake house for Independence Day.  We can sit on their balcony or even in recliners in the air conditioning and watch the fireworks over Canyon Lake through a huge picture window.  It’s my 4th of July Favorite.  Shelby showed the enthusiasm of a toddler seeing the display for the first time.  She laughed joyfully, exclaiming “Yay!” over and over again – even though she’s seen fireworks many times before.  She made the whole thing so much more fun.

 

Upon returning home Allie had a day and a half before leaving for All-State Choir Camp at a nearby college.  We were able to attend a camp-ending concert which showcased how much these talented kids learned in 3 days time.  Then Allie was home for another day and a half before leaving for volunteer training at Camp Blessing.

 

I took Shelby to Camp Blessing (with the help of my good road tripping friend Terri) the day after Allie went.  This week was amazing and meaningful for both girls.  Camp Blessing is a Christian sleep-away camp for special needs kids and adults.  Shelby has gone for many years now and I cry every year when picking her up knowing that a young person gave away her time to care for my daughter.  And this year I not only had a camper, but one of those selfless volunteers as well.  What an indescribable gift.  Allie wants to go back as staff for multiple weeks next year!

 

Chuck and I took those kidless days to play a little.  We went to a dine in movie for date night, hosted a game night with friends at our house, and I had a day date to another movie with a girlfriend.  Fun = rest for me so this was good soul filling time.

 

Those movies I mentioned?  Thor:  Love and Thunder and Mrs. Harris Goes to Paris.  I found the first one funny (lots of slapstick that some critics are not loving) but not really in keeping with the MCU.  The later is so very charming.  I don’t know if you can still find it in the theaters, but go if you are able.  Especially if you like a period piece and don’t like the foul language and crassness of most modern movies.

 

At home the hubs and I started the series The West Wing.  We never watched it during its network TV run, but knew we would enjoy it since we liked Designated Survivor – another political drama.  Not finding The West Wing for free on any of our streaming services, we opted to kick it old school and check out the DVD’s from the library.  This worked great until we finished the first season and now wait as someone else has season two check out.  Old school problems, am I right?

 

To fill the time we started How I Met Your Mother on Hulu.  I enjoy a traditional sitcom and Chuck tolerates it until we can get back to our drama.  We side-tracked into the documentary Janet about Janet Jackson.  Originally on Lifetime, you can find it on Hulu or Prime now.  An interesting look into this show business family and the 2nd most successful sibling.

 

I tried the YA drama The Summer I Turned Pretty on Amazon Prime but bailed by the 3rd episode due to repeated F-bombs and other unsavory content.  We also checked out The Terminal List – also on Prime – after hearing good things but I couldn’t get past the language again.  I also heard it contained a lot of violence, but we didn’t get that far.

 

That about wraps up July for us.  I would love to hear what you have been doing with your summer – or if you have any TV or movie recs to help us pass the time until our next West Wing DVD.  Good grief! And as always I love you, I thank you, and I hope this heat wave does not extend to August.

 

Now for this week’s featured post from the link up!

 

Lynn J Simpson ministered to me this week with What I Know for Sure.  Her thoughts on dreams unrealized and resting in God’s plan felt like a balm to so much of what I’ve been dealing with.  Maybe her beautiful words will touch you, too.

 

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Rest (My Word of the Year) is Hard!

July 22, 2022 by Lauren 26 Comments

word of the yearWhere do I start?  Can you relate to rest being hard???   Maybe the word “rest” conjures up images of lounging in a recliner or laying out by the pool.  But if you are anything like me, rest = struggle.  Hence rest picked me as my word for the year.  

 

Here’s how that word continues to change me:

 

Since my daughter Shelby has aged out of the public school system, she now attends a dayhab program.  This leaves me with 2.5 less productive hours in my day.  Her new program has shorter hours and I drive her to and from (she had a bus pick her up in our driveway before).  Minus 2.5 productive hours I have still been attempting to get all of the same things accomplished.  As you can well imagine, it’s not going well.

 

I work a part time job, teach 2 yoga classes and manage our household.  You know, pay the bills, do the laundry and ironing, plan and cook meals, attend to a teenage daughter and do all the shopping.  In addition to those duties, I manage Shelby.  My severely disabled child requires many doctor visits, case manager check-ins, constant supervision, complete care and more paperwork than you could possibly imagine.  And after all of that, I try to write.  When do I rest?

 

This blog and the writing I do are very important to me.  I consider it a big piece of my ministry and spend countless hours and a little chunk of money on it every year.  It birthed in me the dream of writing a book one day.  But this thing that gives me a sense of purpose and joy has become a stressor.  Once I complete the nonnegotiable items every day, there is little to no time left for this.  And it weighs on me.

 

Word of the Year Decisions

 

I considered whether or not I should quit.  Or take an extended break from blogging.  To be real with you, I wondered if my writing even makes any difference.  I brainstormed with my husband on whether my time would be better spent volunteering more at church or a pregnancy center.  Or if I should find additional work to help with the mountain of expenses coming when our 17 year old goes off to college next year.  This last one just isn’t very feasible with the 9:30-2:30 schedule I have available between dayhab drop off and pick up.  Working from home would be ideal if I knew of any reputable opportunities (hit me up if you do).

 

I took a hard look at my priorities and decided that getting a good workout 5 days a week and quality time with God every day ranked higher with me than getting to write every day.  And my Allie Rose is heading into her senior year of high school.  The way I choose to spend my time feels more important than ever in light of this.  I want to be completely present for every single moment.  Missing a concert, play or a plain old Tuesday with her is not an option.  I already told her that I won’t say “no” to anything she asks me to do this next year.  And I want to stand by that.

 

So, I made the decision to keep writing, but cut back.  This choice came with many tears.  I had to admit that the things I’ve been doing to grow my readership (which is necessary for a book contract) aren’t working and I’m spinning my wheels.  Someone wiser than me once said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.  I’m no closer to getting a publisher’s attention than when I started.  And I’m sitting with that, leaving myself open to the possibility that it’s not the right time or that God may hold something different for me.  So some of that hustle has to go.

 

All this to say that I’m cutting back to one post a week (on Fridays so I can continue to host the Grace and Truth Link Up).  I’ll also no longer be participating in most of the other blog link ups I’ve religiously kept up with.  I actually quit those a couple of weeks ago and I already miss the engagement of my fellow writers.  Most non-writers don’t comment.  But that’s a sacrifice I must make.

 

Praying God’s Word Wednesday won’t go away completely.  It will morph into a once a month post on Friday because so many of you are faithful to pray scripture with me and I love it.  It may need a different name, though.  Comment below with any ideas.

 

I hope we will still see each other every Friday.  I believe God placed this endeavor on my heart for a reason.  But I also know that this season must be about taking care of my family, my relationship with God and myself first.  And then maybe after all that I’ll have time to rest.  It is my word of the year after all.

 

And now for this week’s featured post from the link up.

 

I couldn’t resist Michele Morin’s post this week on…rest.  Yep.  Check out Finding Rest and Being Satisfied in the Land of See and Trust.

 

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I love Jesus, my husband and caffeine. The order of these can change depending on how tired I am. When my two daughters, stepson, and 4 grandchildren get to be too much, I practice yoga. God graciously allows me to share our adventures, victories and flub-ups from my laptop. May He be glorified here.
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