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December 11, 2020 by Lauren 22 Comments

This is a story about yours truly.  Not very many years ago, my friends threatened an intervention regarding my Christmas sweaters.  I wore them long past in vogue, but way before they came back in style as “ugly Christmas sweaters”.  (For context see the pic of my twin sister and I in our reindeer gear.)  I record ALL the Christmas programming just in case we have time to get to it before the holiday ends.  I scour the paper (back in the day) and the internet for festive activities to drag my family to – including my poor retail manager husband.  He works his tail off this time of year and yet I show him no mercy.

 

I want my decorations up the day after Thanksgiving, and the Christmas music to play exclusively then as well.  I even want Christmas carols at church for the whole month of December.  But alas, no one asks my opinion.  Several years ago I even invented a thankfulness tree.  It’s truthfully a veiled excuse to put the tree up November 1st (with leaves and pumpkins and decorative cards with the people and things we thank God for written on them) so that it’s easier and quicker to deck it in red and green once we finish the turkey and dressing!

 

If I had the only vote, I would watch exclusively Christmas movies and TV shows from December 1st through the 25th.  And since I do have the only vote on what I read, I set all but Christmas books and bible studies aside, even if I’m in the middle of something else!

 

I love all the Christmas things.  The lights, the wrapping paper and ribbon, the scarves and Santa hats, the cookies and smells.  I admit I get carried away.  I surround myself with cheesy, sappy sentimentality.  It’s over the top, but I don’t care.  Yes, Christmas was a magical time during my childhood.  But looking back excites me much less than looking forward.

 

Christmas commemorates the birth of Jesus.  That happened over 2,000 years ago.  But I celebrate because He still lives, and He has big plans for me and all who believe.  God’s word tells us His plan.

In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead,  and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade. This inheritance is kept in heaven for you,  who through faith are shielded by God’s power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time.  In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials.  1 Peter 1:3-6 NIV

 

God sent Jesus to earth to die – taking the punishment for all my sins and yours.  Because of this, believing in Jesus for salvation guarantees us a place with Him in heaven someday.  We call it an “inheritance” because we become His child.  And parents typically pass on good things to their children.  The Bible tells us that God does this times 1000 (Matthew 7:11).  And God protects us with His power until the time comes to go to Him.  That doesn’t mean nothing bad will ever happen to us (hello, 2020).  But that He doesn’t leave us alone to deal with the troubles we encounter in our time on a broken earth.

 

For these reasons I get fired up about Christmas.  Yes, even this year.  Because through all we suffer, He watches over us to fulfill His purposes in us.  And when His will is fulfilled, He rewards those of us who believe by His much more tangible presence in a perfect new home.  We have the victory, because that baby left heaven to come to earth.  Woohoo!

 

So my prayer for you is this:

May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.  Romans 15:13 NIV

 

Merry Christmas!

 

And now for this week’s featured post!

 

If you are looking for something new to study in your time with the Lord, read Michele Morin’s compelling argument in Why You Should Read Isaiah this Christmas!

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Ushering in Advent

November 27, 2020 by Lauren 8 Comments

How has November come and gone?  Daylight savings kicked off the month by messing with my sleep.  That early morning sun wakes me before I want to rise, but the mild, beautiful days help.  I thank God that it’s finally comfortable enough here in Texas to exercise outside, but I  always pine for colder temps to get me into the holiday spirit.  If you live in the north, I can hear you rolling your eyes from down here.  I’m sure you would trade me for my 72 degree days.  We always seem to want what we don’t have.  There’s a lesson in there somewhere.

 

The election season remains an adventure.  No matter what side of the fence you sit on (let’s be honest – both sides have become so extreme that most of us reside somewhere in the middle), just remember that approximately half the country grieves.  Everyone be kind and behave.

 

So much in the world feels heavy and dark to me right now.  So I decided to lighten up.  My hair anyway.  My friend and stylist cut several inches off and gave me a brighter color.  I feel like a new woman!  I have been told that I look both younger and thinner.  So my stylist is a true miracle worker!  My favorite dog took a trip to her stylist and got cleaned and trimmed up too.  In my frugality, I let my yorkie get pretty shaggy between visits and I always forget how cute she really is when groomed!

 

My best friend flew in from Alabama mid-month and lifted my spirits even more.  We shopped too much, ate too much, took a long walk in a beautiful park and talked about all the things.  We took in some early Christmas decor at the Gaylord Hotel for a night with my twin sister and another friend who drove up from Waco!  Much needed refreshment.  As I write this, my bff left yesterday and I already miss her.  Many thanks to her sweet family for loaning her to me.  Now I continue my scheming and plotting to get them to move back to Texas.

 

Allie stays busy with school and choir practice.  And even though she’s not driving yet herself, two of her best friends scored a license in the past month and she calls for our chauffeur services rarely now.   I can’t believe her time will come before we know it.  She already owns a car generously gifted to us by her aunt, but the stereo was shot.  An important feature for a music loving teen, we gifted her with a new one (part of her Christmas) and surprised her with it.  Such a fun reaction from a very happy girl.

 

The doctor cut out my ingrown toenails.  Ouch!  But at least he wrapped me in purple for Epilepsy Awareness Month!  I also have some nice new skin sores after the dermatologist froze several spots for me.  When you are 100% family out of pocket max on your insurance, you take care of all the things.  (Thanks Allie’s broken leg!)

 

The return of some TV favorites excited us (what else is there to do).  A Million Little Things, The Mandalorian, and The Crown thrilled and entertained.  We tried the new show Big Sky and found it too dark, not even finishing the episode.  Dark and heavy is the real world.  I need light and funny right now.  Even silly, which is why we picked up with the last season of Fuller House that we never completed.  If escapism and happy endings appeal to you, I recommend Love, Guaranteed on Netflix.  Just do it.  And as you read this, Thanksgiving is officially over and Christmas movies took center stage!

 

Covid-19 continues to be the gift that keeps on giving.  Many of our favorite holiday traditions have been canceled or strangely altered.  Including dinner and football at my parents’ house.  I am trying not to be a brat about it because I do believe it’s the smartest and safest thing to do, but this girl is in desperate need of things to look forward to.  So I cooked the turkey and dressing for my little family and my twin and her husband.  My other sister and her family stopped by for a socially distanced visit in the front yard.  At least that’s still doable in unseasonably warm Texas.

 

I will wrap this up with a picture of a HUGE headless reindeer I came across.  This might be the most 2020 Christmas decoration ever.  I pray you enjoyed a lovely Thanksgiving and that you embrace the Advent season and the hope it brings.  As always, I love you, I thank you, and I pray December treats you well.

 

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Because I don’t want the discussion around racial injustice to wane, I had to feature Grace and Truth’s own Lisa Burgess’ recommended reading on the subject.  She has compiled a comprehensive list of resources here.  Visit her over on lisanotes.com to see what else she is writing.

 

 

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