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The Maiden Monthly Muster of 2020 and Grace & Truth Link Up

January 30, 2020 by Lauren 26 Comments

Does anyone else feel like January has been 87 days long?  I think I’ve lived many lives since New Year’s Eve!

 

Family

My Baylor Bears played in the Sugar Bowl on New Year’s Day, so we spent January 1st hanging, working a jigsaw puzzle and watching with my parents and my PawPaw.  We would soon learn that we are losing our beloved coach to the NFL, but word has it that His replacement brings a lot to the table.  Now I have to wait until August to find out!  Baylor basketball is coming in HOT (men’s team #1 and women’s #2), but alas, I don’t dig hoops.

 

Allie’s choir served as the chorus for her high school’s theater production of Mary Poppins, so we are fighting against with the urge to speak primarily in a British accent.  And others are struggling as they hear it!  Allie also attended LIVE weekend – a discipleship retreat for teens at our church.  We had 240 plus teenagers attend!   The worship, preaching, fellowship and small group time make it the best weekend of her year.

 

While she was doing that, Chuck and I escaped with the help of our parents to try to relax from the weight of family issues and recent tragedies.  Oh, and we celebrated 21 years of loving and supporting each other.  I can’t begin to explain how grateful I am that Chuck chose me and continues to choose me every day.  There is no one I prefer in the good times and we keep holding each other up through the bad.  Thank you, Lord.

 

Friends

I had the blessing of helping some great friends with medical appointments.  I took one to the hospital for hip replacement surgery and sat with her granddaughter for the duration.  The next day I went with a childhood friend to an MRI appointment.  Then I got to take a meal to a recovering mentor.  I know most of us – myself included – have a hard time asking for help.  I often feel like it’s an imposition.  But I can honestly say, it is such an honor for me to be asked to support a friend.  So don’t deprive me (or your friends) of an honor by trying to do the thing all by yourself.

 

Every week I get to meet with a group of women who refer to themselves as “life group misfits”.  We’ve all had trouble fitting into and maintaining a place in traditional church life groups.  But we found each other and call ourselves “Lady Friends”.  That name brings me almost as much joy as being in the presence of these precious, funny and real women.  And I finally had enough flex in my daytime schedule to squeeze in lunch with another lovely.  We had so much to catch up on that she brought a list of things to make sure we covered!  I loved it.  She made me feel like a celebrity being interviewed on a talk show!  Then the two of us and our husbands double dated the next night.  We planned to eat a progressive dinner, going to three different restaurants for appetizer, entree and dessert.  Well, it was Saturday night in a Dallas suburb  so we should have known wait times would slow us down.  We only made it two places, but had fun in the process.

 

Entertainment

When I could steal a few moments alone to read, I devoured Why I Hate Green Beans:  And Other Confessions about Relationships, Reality TV, and How we See Ourselves by Lincee Ray.  This felt like laughing and relating with a girlfriend.  And last I checked it was free on Kindle!  Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families:  The Five Love Languages for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities by Gary Chapman was a little disappointing.  I learned so much from his original Love Language book, so it seemed like a good idea to read this with a young mom I’m mentoring.  We found it, quite frankly, lame.  But it gave me one really good idea.  So there’s that.  And I finally came back to and finished Rosemary:  The Hidden Kennedy Daughter by Kate Clifford Larson.

 

We caved into some FOMO and subscribed to Disney+.  Our first show?  High School Musical the Musical the Series.  We loved it.  Clunkiest name for a series ever, but we pushed through.  And having all the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse videos available for Shelby on demand is both a good and a bad thing.  During the Christmas hiatus, I enjoyed catching old episodes of Wings, but now all our regularly scheduled programs are back in full force.  Plus, it’s awards show season.  Something I kind of like (as long as I can fast forward through the boring parts), and my husband kinda hates.  Even though we didn’t watch any of the Grammy’s, we watched Gayle King’s Grammy Special!

 

We only went to the movies one day this month, but made up for it by watching two in a row.  Knives Out is a fantastically fun Clue-style who done it with lots of twists and surprises.  Just Mercy wrenched my heart, opened my eyes, and called me to do better.  I highly recommend both. And I added a couple more podcasts to my earbuds.  After hearing at least 10 people rave about Dolly Parton’s America, I am now 4 episodes in.  So good.  I have never really been a Dolly fan, but she is pretty fascinating.  I also downloaded Showmance:  The Glee Recap Edition.  I loved the show (the first two seasons anyway), but the jury is still out on the pod. 

 

My husband and I still carry heavy burdens of grief and struggle for on-going things in our families.  We humbly ask you to continue to bring us and our loved ones before the throne of our Heavenly Father.  Your prayers mean so much.

 

Thanks for looking over my January with me.  What did you do in yours?

 

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Help for Reading Resolutioners

January 10, 2020 by Lauren 33 Comments

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While many are setting New Year’s goals and making promises they may or may not keep, may I selfishly encourage you to consider a reading resolution this year.  It’s selfish only because I am a writer who needs readers.  But reading benefits us on so many levels.

 

Reading improves memory, enhances vocabulary, increases creativity, relieves stress and lowers blood pressure, and makes you more empathetic.  Books provide entertainment, education and keep the brain young.  In my un-asked-for opinion, getting lost in a biography or novel is also a much easier path to self-improvement than going keto.

 

I read about half as many books in 2019 as I did in 2018.  I don’t think I actually spent that much less time physically reading, but I did discover a wheelbarrow load of new podcasts that kept me from listening to as many audio books.  If you are looking for some reading inspiration for 2020, I gladly share what I consumed last year and even divided them into categories – with the tiniest of commentary.

 

Fiction

  1.  When We Were Young by Karen Kingsbury .  I used to read all of her books.  I don’t follow Kingsbury that closely anymore, but I’m so invested in the make-believe Baxter Family after all these years that I have to keep up with anything about them.
  2. The Blue Castle by L.M. Montgomery.  I’m a fan of hers from way back and discovered an old but new-to-me title.
  3. Gennie the Huguenot Woman by Bette M Ross (It’s a long and weird story why I chose to read this, but it is actually pretty good.)

And that, sadly, completes my fiction list.  When I looked back at my year in books this appalled me.  I resolve right now to indulge in more stories in the months to come.

 

Devotional or Bible Study

  1.  Perseverance:  30 Devotions for Faith that Moves Mountains.  I had to list this one.  It’s the first book I’ve ever been published in.  And I’m proud to be included.
  2. Seeing God’s Hand Through the Art of Sign Language by Connie Rowland
  3. Discerning the Voice of God:  How to Recognize When God Speaks by Priscilla Shirer
  4. Awaken:  90 Days with the God Who Speaks by Priscilla Shirer (I love her)

 

Books on Writing

  1.  The Elements of Style by Strunk and White.  Yep.  That’s it.  I am a student of my craft.

 

Non-Fiction

  1.  Is the Bible Good for Women?:  Seeking Clarity and Confidence Through a Jesus-Centered Understanding of Scripture by Wendy Alsup
  2. Mended:  Restoring the Hearts of Mothers and Daughters by Blythe Daniel and Helen McIntosh
  3. Sacred Ground, Sticky Floors:  How Less-Than-Perfect Parents Can Raise (Kind of) Great Kids by Jami Amerine
  4. Stolen Jesus:  An Unconventional Search for the Real Savior by Jami Amerine (I really dig her raw and honest voice)
  5. When Harry Became Sally:  Responding to the Transgender Moment by Ryan T. Anderson (It’s time for the church to talk about it.)
  6. The Power of Christian Contentment by Andrew M. Davis (a definite struggle for me).
  7. Big Magic:  Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert (For me, this did not live up to the hype.)
  8. It’s a Love Story:  From Happily to Ever After  by Lincee Ray
  9. The Sacred Echo by Margaret Feinberg
  10. Emotionally Healthy Spirituality:  It’s Impossible to be Spiritually Mature, While Remaining Emotionally Immature by Peter Scazzero
  11. Prototype:  What Happens When You Discover You’re More Like Jesus Than You Think?  by Jonathan Martin
  12. The Wondering Years:  How Pop Culture Helped Me Answer Life’s Biggest Questions by Knox McCoy (a gift from my BFF)
  13. Sex, Jesus, and The Conversations the Church Forgot by Mo Isom
  14. Giddy Up, Eunice (Because Women Need Each Other) by Sophie Hudson (I love her podcast with Melanie Shankle.)
  15. Anatomy of a Song:  The Oral History of 45 Iconic Hits that Changed Rock, R&B and Pop by Marc Myers (Just listen to the songs.)
  16. For Young Women Only:  What You Need to Know About How Guys Think by Shaunti Feldhahn (I read this to discuss with my daughter because For Women Only:  What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men was extremely eye opening to me as a newlywed.  The original was much better and I would advise any moms out there to just go with the more “adult” book for convos with your daughter about boys and dating.)

Books That Should Be Required Reading

  1.  Night by Elie Wiesel (hard, but important)
  2. The Louder Song:  Listening for Hope in the Midst of Lament by Aubrey Sampson (taught me so much about being real)
  3. Winning the Heart of Your Child by Mike Berry (even though my kids are older, this book motivated me to change my parenting)
  4. Your Future Self Will Thank You:  Secrets to Self-Control from the Bible and Brain Science (A Guide for Sinners, Quitters and Procrastinators) by Drew Dyck  (Just look at the title!  Do you not fall into one of those categories!?!)
  5. A Practical Guide to Culture:  Helping the Next Generation Navigate Today’s World by John Stonestreet and Brett Kunkle
  6. Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands:  People in Need of Change Helping People in Need of Change (Resources for Changing Lives) by Paul David Tripp (All church members should read and apply.  It’s really about being a good friend.)

Books That Will Make You LOL

  1.  I Ain’t Doin’ It:  Unfiltered Thoughts From a Sarcastic Southern Sweetheart by Heather Land (If you like yourself at all, get it on audio and prepare to need to change your underpants.)
  2. by Melanie Shankle (one of my all-time fave authors and speakers)

Christmas Books (Saved for Last Because You Won’t Need Them for a While)

  1.  Because of Bethlehem:  Love is Born, Hope is Here by Max Lucado
  2. Christmas Joy:  A Novel by Nancy Naigle (the delightful book equivalent of a Hallmark Christmas movie)
  3. Christmas in Georgia by Celestine Sibley
  4. Touching Wonder:  Recapturing the Awe of Christmas by John Blase (LOVE!)

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