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Is Manifestation A Worthwhile Pursuit?

July 14, 2023 by Lauren 12 Comments

In a recent edition of The Culture Translator,

I read that as of June 2, #manifestation sits at 36 billion views on Tik Tok.  36 Billion!  That’s proof of the far-reaching influence of Tik Tok, but also the desperate need people have for hope.

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 Hope that they can change their lives.  Hope for fulfilling their dreams.  (As an aside, I highly recommend subscribing to The Culture Translator.  The weekly email keeps me up to date on current trends in pop culture and looks at them through a Biblical lens.  So helpful.)  But back to manifestation.

 

The idea of manifestation is the thought that something theoretical becomes real.  Researching manifestation I found things like this quote from an Elle magazine article on January 5th.  “Manifesting is a practice that benefits literally every area of your life because it empowers you to become the very best version of yourself that exists, embody the person you most want to become, and help you to unlock the infinite potential that you have to create the life of your dreams.”  And  a blog post called “9 Steps to Manifest What You Really Want in Life”.  Those steps are:

  1. Understand yourself
  2. Remove limiting thoughts
  3. Be clear about what you want
  4. Get your ask out there
  5. Make consistent efforts
  6. Believe in yourself
  7. Practice positive affirmations
  8. Acknowledge and appreciate small wins
  9. Remain patient

 

What’s Manifestation All About?

 

We are being told that there is a formula for making things turn out just like you want the too.  And that, my friends, is a steaming pile of excrement.  There are things within our control (as must as anything can be), and things we will NEVER be able to influence.  To believe anything different is to give ourselves false hope.  God tells us in Isaiah 55:8-9:

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
    neither are your ways my ways,”
declares the Lord.
 “As the heavens are higher than the earth,
    so are my ways higher than your ways
    and my thoughts than your thoughts.”

 

There is pretty compelling evidence that maintaining a positive attitude and working hard benefits us and others.  But we can’t pretend that we can control other people in our lives, much less the God of the Universe.  To believe in our power to manifest anything into being is to believe that we always know best.  That what we want supersedes what others want and what God wills.  That’s an incredibly arrogant position from which to live.

 

In addition, Lydia Sohn writes in The Atlantic that manifestation has a “fragile ethical foundation” because it can imply that when bad things happen, it’s somehow due to negligence on the part of the victim.  In other words, if we can bring something good into being, then it must be our fault when bad things happen to us.  We can’t have it both ways.

 

So What Can We Do?

 

Jesus’ substitutionary death on the cross brought grace into our world.  It abolished the need to strive in our own power to make things happen.  Although God gives us gifts and talents to use, they are ultimately for His glory.  And that should always be our main goal.  Any thoughts of self-advancement should fall under the desire to point to Christ.

 

Sohn continued, “The practice of prayer presupposes that while we can express and pursue our preferences, we ultimately hand them over to someone with a perspective much broader and a love more generous than any of us can fathom.”  This type of prayer takes a lot of trust in God as it feels like releasing any control we have.  But the truth is, we only imagine we have any real control.  There is a bigger power, a bigger plan and a greater love waiting to blanket you in peace.  The peace that comes from the cessation of striving.

 

Trust of this magnitude is not easy.  It is something I pursue every day.  But there is peace and joy in the pursuit.  Because I know I’m not in control.  And that’s more freeing than you can imagine.  I’m praying for you in this.

 

And now for this week’s featured post from the link up!

 

Barbara Lee Harper has written a beautiful explanation of the gospel message and why it matters so much in Do You Want to Be Free?

 

 

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First Friday Prayers: Prayers for Forgiveness

July 7, 2023 by Lauren 2 Comments

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Today is Global Forgiveness Day!  The topic of forgiveness can be challenging for some and even triggering for others.  In our humanity, it can be hard to wrap our brains around.  Especially when the offense is great.  But if you will indulge me, I would like to look at prayers for forgiveness from two different angles.

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“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”  Colossians 3:13 NIV

 

It’s easy to forget at times that our offenses against the God of the universe are great.  Any sin is too much for our Heavenly Father to associate with.  Without His forgiveness through the saving work of Jesus on the cross, we would be destined for an eternity separated from God – whether we killed someone or told a little white lie.  And most of us will fall somewhere in between, with many shortcomings both big and small.  Remembering this gives me a different lens through which to view others who’ve hurt me.

 

Easy for Me to Say

 

That doesn’t mean forgiveness comes easy.  And it certainly doesn’t mean that we should leave ourselves in dangerous or abusive situations.  Forgiving someone does not necessarily mean that person gets to hold a place at our table.  Setting healthy boundaries is important, and sometimes we need to seek the counsel of clergy or a trained therapist to help.

 

In light of God’s forgiveness and our command to forgive others, I want to offer two prayers for forgiveness.  If you aren’t sure you have received God’s forgiveness and understand that Jesus died as a perfect substitution for our sins so that we can receive forgiveness and live in community with God, please pray the following prayer:

 

Take Time to Take This In

 

This is the most important prayer you will ever utter.  And it doesn’t have to be in my words.  If you prayed this prayer while reading this article or you didn’t pray it because you don’t understand it, I would love to visit with you further.  Shoot me an email at [email protected].  Or hit the contact me tab at the top of this site.  What you send will be confidential and I would be happy to communicate with you by email, zoom or whatever we can come up with.  Or find a Bible believing church in your area and make an appointment to talk with a minister there.  No matter what you do, don’t let it be nothing.  Seek deeper knowledge and understanding for yourself and don’t keep such good news quiet!

 

If you have previously offered a prayer like the one above and are struggling to forgive someone in your life, here is a prayer for you:

 

I know this is tough, but I’m praying for you in your prayers for forgiveness. Don’t forget to share on social media or with a friend who could benefit.  It would mean so much to me.  And if you don’t want to miss a First Friday Prayers post, subscribe over on the right hand side of this page.  And if I can pray for you in more specific ways, drop me a message.  It would be an honor.

Lauren

And now for this week’s featured post from the link up!

 

Just a couple of days ago I had a conversation with friends that was very similar to what Lois Flowers is trying to say in How to Stop Being Too Easily Pleased by Distractions.

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LISA BURGESS – Lisa notes
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TAMMY KENNINGTON – Restoring hope. Pursuing peace.
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