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The Good Thing vs. The God Thing and Grace and Truth Link Up

February 7, 2020 by Lauren 28 Comments

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40 A man with leprosy[a] came to him and begged him on his knees, “If you are willing, you can make me clean.”

41 Jesus was indignant.[b] He reached out his hand and touched the man. “I am willing,” he said. “Be clean!” 42 Immediately the leprosy left him and he was cleansed.

43 Jesus sent him away at once with a strong warning: 44 “See that you don’t tell this to anyone. But go, show yourself to the priest and offer the sacrifices that Moses commanded for your cleansing, as a testimony to them.” 45 Instead he went out and began to talk freely, spreading the news. As a result, Jesus could no longer enter a town openly but stayed outside in lonely places. Yet the people still came to him from everywhere.

Mark 1:40-45 NIV

 

I can see this story, and many other miracles of Jesus, depicted in fuzzy flannel graph in my mind.  I’m not sure if the flannel itself was fuzzy or if my childhood memories, in general, have lost their sharpness in my middle-aged brain.  What I do remember is that Jesus’ instructions to this man confused me.  Be quiet.  Don’t tell anyone, He said.  What?  How could this man not tell EVERYONE about the most exciting thing that’s happened to him?  And furthermore, didn’t Jesus want others to know about Him?  The healed man obviously didn’t understand either and chose what HE thought was best – blabbing about the miracle to anyone who would listen.  And it hindered the ministry of Jesus.  Our Savior didn’t (and still doesn’t) just want people to know ABOUT Him.  He wants people to know HIM.  The crowds became too interested in the works He could do to listen to His message of love and forgiveness.

 

In Acts 22, we find the apostle Paul in a similar struggle of good vs. God.  After his dramatic and miraculous blinding and conversion, God speaks to him (Did you hear that?  He didn’t just have a feeling.  GOD SPOKE TO HIM!) and told him to leave Jerusalem to preach to the Gentiles.  And yet Paul argued that his own people knew his conversion story and would listen to him.  Bringing the Good News of Jesus to the Jews was a noble endeavor, but not what God had for Paul.  So like the patient Father He is, he calmly reiterated that Paul was to go.

 

Not even by taking off my socks and my shoes can I count the number of times I decided to forge ahead into something “good” without waiting for confirmation that it was from God.  I get overcommitted by jumping to fill a need that I don’t have time for.  And I get over my head when I tackle projects that aren’t in my wheelhouse.  More importantly, when I lack the discernment to decipher good deeds from God ordained ministry, I miss what God is inviting me to be a part of and potentially rob someone else of the blessing that was theirs.

 

What makes sense in my feeble brain is most often not God’s best.  Isaiah 55:8-9 NIV says, “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,”declares the Lord.9 “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”  

 

Unless the Lord builds a house,
the work of the builders is wasted.
Unless the Lord protects a city,
guarding it with sentries will do no good.

Psalm 127:1 NLT

Now for this week’s featured post

Does Your Fresh Start Need a Fresh Start? by Lois Flowers

Oh how we beat ourselves up over those blasted New Year’s resolutions or the belief that things will be better just because the calendar page turned.  I know I’m in this category right now, but Lois offers sweet encouragement for us here.

Visit Waxing Gibbous here to read the post.

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link UpGrace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

Join us each Friday for the Grace and Truth Link-Up!

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Maree Dee

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Lauren Sparks

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Heather Hart & Valerie Riese

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1.)  Following your hosts via their blog and social media channels is not mandatory, but appreciated!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

2.) Leave 1-2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. Please do not link DIY, Crafts, Recipes, etc. We will delete these links. We also reserve the right to remove articles that don’t align with the theme or are deemed by the hostesses to be inappropriate.

3.) Visit 1-2 other links and leave a meaningful comment! We want to encourage community among us, so please don’t link and run!

4.) We sort all links randomly – feel free to link as early or as late as you’d like. The playing field is even!

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Spending a Weekend With My 1st and 2nd Loves And Grace & Truth Link-up

January 23, 2020 by Lauren 34 Comments

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My husband and I just celebrated our 21st year together.  Truly something to commemorate.  I’m not sure why I get to be married to him, and the rest of you ladies have to settle for someone else; but no one said life is fair.

 

We knew we needed to “get away”, but initially struggled with where to go.  It’s been a while since we’ve traveled someplace interesting because…life.  But after analyzing things like childcare, time and available funds, we opted for a practically free stay at my in-laws lake house.  I must admit that, at first, I was kind of bratty about it.  I have visited Canyon Lake many, many times in the last 21 years so the idea didn’t seem fun or special.  But for us, for now, it seemed most prudent.  Prudent.  Isn’t that a romantic word?

 

No matter.  The last couple of months handed us more on a platter than we thought we could handle.  Family crisis, the death of a dear friend, job loss for friends and family, job changes and stresses for us and major insurance issues.  We have cried enough tears to be dehydrated.  So in the end, it didn’t really matter where we went.  We just needed a break from our regular routine and an escape from the fruit of our loins.

 

That fruit didn’t make it easy.  Allie had a youth retreat weekend at church, but had to work out transportation and other issues.  And when she gets stressed, the rest of us feel it.  And Shelby.  Arranging care for a 19 year old who needs lots of help is not easy.  Especially now that our parents are getting older.  They are still perfectly capable and generously willing, but we often worry that it could be too much.

 

Chuck’s parents agreed to keep Shelby for two nights, and my parents stepped in to help with Allie’s logistics.  Shelby started the weekend with an ear infection, two straight days of seizure activity, and multiple blow out diapers.  If you think an infant’s blow out diaper is savage, you should see one from a 19 year old.  But everything settled down enough for us to vacate and manage to relax.

 

My husband and I spent the whole first day playing.  We shopped, ate pizza, and saw two movies in a row at a theater.  With snack.  Just because we could.  Then we drove out to the lake house and had a romantic evening with no child sleeping in our room.  Just what we needed.  But I think our non-plans for day two excited me even more.

 

Sunday we agreed to sit still and enjoy a lot of quiet.  As much as we needed to focus on each other, I desperately needed to spend time with my first love – Jesus.  I spend time with Him every day.  But just like I see my husband every day, our time together is often rushed, unfocused and crowded in with lots of other things.  I needed time to savor my Savior.  And I did.

 

I sat in a cozy recliner and looked at the lake through five foot windows while I prayed, read my bible and live streamed our church’s service.  I researched scripture and I took notes.  I took walks out in the world He created.  And most importantly, I didn’t rush a thing.

 

Maybe we’ve started a new tradition.  Maybe anniversary weekends will no longer be about what we can do, but what we can not do.  I’m really not sure of much past just this minute.  But I know this year I really needed to just linger with my first two loves.

 

Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
    will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.[ Psalm 91:1 NIV

 

Now for an exciting announcement!  I have been invited to join the Grace & Truth team and will be hosting a blog link-up here every Friday!  For those of you who are readers only, I will continue to post the original content you have come to expect.  But there will also be an opportunity for writers to share their work here with you!

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link UpGrace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

Join us each Friday for the Grace and Truth Link-Up!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

 

 

Maree Dee

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Lauren Sparks

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Heather Hart & Valerie Riese

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Grace&Truth-Rules2

1.)  Following your hosts via their blog and social media channels is not mandatory, but appreciated!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

2.) Leave 1-2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. Please do not link DIY, Crafts, Recipes, etc. We will delete these links. We also reserve the right to remove articles that don’t align with the theme or are deemed by the hostesses to be inappropriate.

3.) Visit 1-2 other links and leave a meaningful comment! We want to encourage community among us, so please don’t link and run!

4.) We sort all links randomly – feel free to link as early or as late as you’d like. The playing field is even!

Featured Post Requirements

5.) Grab a button or link back to encourage new linkers. It is not mandatory, but it is required to be featured.

6.) Each host will choose one link to emphasize and promote via their social media channels next week.


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And now, let’s link up!

 

You are invited to the Inlinkz link party!

Click here to enter

 

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