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The Maiden Monthly Muster of 2020 and Grace & Truth Link Up

January 30, 2020 by Lauren 26 Comments

Does anyone else feel like January has been 87 days long?  I think I’ve lived many lives since New Year’s Eve!

 

Family

My Baylor Bears played in the Sugar Bowl on New Year’s Day, so we spent January 1st hanging, working a jigsaw puzzle and watching with my parents and my PawPaw.  We would soon learn that we are losing our beloved coach to the NFL, but word has it that His replacement brings a lot to the table.  Now I have to wait until August to find out!  Baylor basketball is coming in HOT (men’s team #1 and women’s #2), but alas, I don’t dig hoops.

 

Allie’s choir served as the chorus for her high school’s theater production of Mary Poppins, so we are fighting against with the urge to speak primarily in a British accent.  And others are struggling as they hear it!  Allie also attended LIVE weekend – a discipleship retreat for teens at our church.  We had 240 plus teenagers attend!   The worship, preaching, fellowship and small group time make it the best weekend of her year.

 

While she was doing that, Chuck and I escaped with the help of our parents to try to relax from the weight of family issues and recent tragedies.  Oh, and we celebrated 21 years of loving and supporting each other.  I can’t begin to explain how grateful I am that Chuck chose me and continues to choose me every day.  There is no one I prefer in the good times and we keep holding each other up through the bad.  Thank you, Lord.

 

Friends

I had the blessing of helping some great friends with medical appointments.  I took one to the hospital for hip replacement surgery and sat with her granddaughter for the duration.  The next day I went with a childhood friend to an MRI appointment.  Then I got to take a meal to a recovering mentor.  I know most of us – myself included – have a hard time asking for help.  I often feel like it’s an imposition.  But I can honestly say, it is such an honor for me to be asked to support a friend.  So don’t deprive me (or your friends) of an honor by trying to do the thing all by yourself.

 

Every week I get to meet with a group of women who refer to themselves as “life group misfits”.  We’ve all had trouble fitting into and maintaining a place in traditional church life groups.  But we found each other and call ourselves “Lady Friends”.  That name brings me almost as much joy as being in the presence of these precious, funny and real women.  And I finally had enough flex in my daytime schedule to squeeze in lunch with another lovely.  We had so much to catch up on that she brought a list of things to make sure we covered!  I loved it.  She made me feel like a celebrity being interviewed on a talk show!  Then the two of us and our husbands double dated the next night.  We planned to eat a progressive dinner, going to three different restaurants for appetizer, entree and dessert.  Well, it was Saturday night in a Dallas suburb  so we should have known wait times would slow us down.  We only made it two places, but had fun in the process.

 

Entertainment

When I could steal a few moments alone to read, I devoured Why I Hate Green Beans:  And Other Confessions about Relationships, Reality TV, and How we See Ourselves by Lincee Ray.  This felt like laughing and relating with a girlfriend.  And last I checked it was free on Kindle!  Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families:  The Five Love Languages for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities by Gary Chapman was a little disappointing.  I learned so much from his original Love Language book, so it seemed like a good idea to read this with a young mom I’m mentoring.  We found it, quite frankly, lame.  But it gave me one really good idea.  So there’s that.  And I finally came back to and finished Rosemary:  The Hidden Kennedy Daughter by Kate Clifford Larson.

 

We caved into some FOMO and subscribed to Disney+.  Our first show?  High School Musical the Musical the Series.  We loved it.  Clunkiest name for a series ever, but we pushed through.  And having all the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse videos available for Shelby on demand is both a good and a bad thing.  During the Christmas hiatus, I enjoyed catching old episodes of Wings, but now all our regularly scheduled programs are back in full force.  Plus, it’s awards show season.  Something I kind of like (as long as I can fast forward through the boring parts), and my husband kinda hates.  Even though we didn’t watch any of the Grammy’s, we watched Gayle King’s Grammy Special!

 

We only went to the movies one day this month, but made up for it by watching two in a row.  Knives Out is a fantastically fun Clue-style who done it with lots of twists and surprises.  Just Mercy wrenched my heart, opened my eyes, and called me to do better.  I highly recommend both. And I added a couple more podcasts to my earbuds.  After hearing at least 10 people rave about Dolly Parton’s America, I am now 4 episodes in.  So good.  I have never really been a Dolly fan, but she is pretty fascinating.  I also downloaded Showmance:  The Glee Recap Edition.  I loved the show (the first two seasons anyway), but the jury is still out on the pod. 

 

My husband and I still carry heavy burdens of grief and struggle for on-going things in our families.  We humbly ask you to continue to bring us and our loved ones before the throne of our Heavenly Father.  Your prayers mean so much.

 

Thanks for looking over my January with me.  What did you do in yours?

 

Featured Post

Today the featured post from last week’s link up is from Laura Thomas.  She shares a touching story from her own life to illustrate God’s faithfulness to us.  You will be so encouraged if you click over and read.

Now for The Featured Post

Treasures From the Sea:  Family Miracle, Faithful God

by Laura Thomas

 

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link UpGrace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

Join us each Friday for the Grace and Truth Link-Up!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

 

 

Maree Dee

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Lauren Sparks

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Heather Hart & Valerie Riese

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Grace&Truth-Rules2

1.)  Following your hosts via their blog and social media channels is not mandatory, but appreciated!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

2.) Leave 1-2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. Please do not link DIY, Crafts, Recipes, etc. We will delete these links. We also reserve the right to remove articles that don’t align with the theme or are deemed by the hostesses to be inappropriate.

3.) Visit 1-2 other links and leave a meaningful comment! We want to encourage community among us, so please don’t link and run!

4.) We sort all links randomly – feel free to link as early or as late as you’d like. The playing field is even!

Featured Post Requirements

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6.) Each host will choose one link to emphasize and promote via their social media channels next week.


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Spending a Weekend With My 1st and 2nd Loves And Grace & Truth Link-up

January 23, 2020 by Lauren 34 Comments

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My husband and I just celebrated our 21st year together.  Truly something to commemorate.  I’m not sure why I get to be married to him, and the rest of you ladies have to settle for someone else; but no one said life is fair.

 

We knew we needed to “get away”, but initially struggled with where to go.  It’s been a while since we’ve traveled someplace interesting because…life.  But after analyzing things like childcare, time and available funds, we opted for a practically free stay at my in-laws lake house.  I must admit that, at first, I was kind of bratty about it.  I have visited Canyon Lake many, many times in the last 21 years so the idea didn’t seem fun or special.  But for us, for now, it seemed most prudent.  Prudent.  Isn’t that a romantic word?

 

No matter.  The last couple of months handed us more on a platter than we thought we could handle.  Family crisis, the death of a dear friend, job loss for friends and family, job changes and stresses for us and major insurance issues.  We have cried enough tears to be dehydrated.  So in the end, it didn’t really matter where we went.  We just needed a break from our regular routine and an escape from the fruit of our loins.

 

That fruit didn’t make it easy.  Allie had a youth retreat weekend at church, but had to work out transportation and other issues.  And when she gets stressed, the rest of us feel it.  And Shelby.  Arranging care for a 19 year old who needs lots of help is not easy.  Especially now that our parents are getting older.  They are still perfectly capable and generously willing, but we often worry that it could be too much.

 

Chuck’s parents agreed to keep Shelby for two nights, and my parents stepped in to help with Allie’s logistics.  Shelby started the weekend with an ear infection, two straight days of seizure activity, and multiple blow out diapers.  If you think an infant’s blow out diaper is savage, you should see one from a 19 year old.  But everything settled down enough for us to vacate and manage to relax.

 

My husband and I spent the whole first day playing.  We shopped, ate pizza, and saw two movies in a row at a theater.  With snack.  Just because we could.  Then we drove out to the lake house and had a romantic evening with no child sleeping in our room.  Just what we needed.  But I think our non-plans for day two excited me even more.

 

Sunday we agreed to sit still and enjoy a lot of quiet.  As much as we needed to focus on each other, I desperately needed to spend time with my first love – Jesus.  I spend time with Him every day.  But just like I see my husband every day, our time together is often rushed, unfocused and crowded in with lots of other things.  I needed time to savor my Savior.  And I did.

 

I sat in a cozy recliner and looked at the lake through five foot windows while I prayed, read my bible and live streamed our church’s service.  I researched scripture and I took notes.  I took walks out in the world He created.  And most importantly, I didn’t rush a thing.

 

Maybe we’ve started a new tradition.  Maybe anniversary weekends will no longer be about what we can do, but what we can not do.  I’m really not sure of much past just this minute.  But I know this year I really needed to just linger with my first two loves.

 

Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High
    will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.[ Psalm 91:1 NIV

 

Now for an exciting announcement!  I have been invited to join the Grace & Truth team and will be hosting a blog link-up here every Friday!  For those of you who are readers only, I will continue to post the original content you have come to expect.  But there will also be an opportunity for writers to share their work here with you!

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link UpGrace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

Join us each Friday for the Grace and Truth Link-Up!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

 

 

Maree Dee

Blog | Facebook | Twitter | Instagram | Pinterest

Lauren Sparks

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Heather Hart & Valerie Riese

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Grace&Truth-Rules2

1.)  Following your hosts via their blog and social media channels is not mandatory, but appreciated!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

2.) Leave 1-2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. Please do not link DIY, Crafts, Recipes, etc. We will delete these links. We also reserve the right to remove articles that don’t align with the theme or are deemed by the hostesses to be inappropriate.

3.) Visit 1-2 other links and leave a meaningful comment! We want to encourage community among us, so please don’t link and run!

4.) We sort all links randomly – feel free to link as early or as late as you’d like. The playing field is even!

Featured Post Requirements

5.) Grab a button or link back to encourage new linkers. It is not mandatory, but it is required to be featured.

6.) Each host will choose one link to emphasize and promote via their social media channels next week.


Grab a Badge and Link Back to this Post.

 

And now, let’s link up!

 

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Click here to enter

 

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