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R-E-S-P-E-C-T

November 11, 2015 by Lauren Leave a Comment

I love the life we have here in the DFW Metroplex.  We have a wonderful church, great schools, good jobs and fantastic friends.  We don’t have plans to go anywhere else.  But being in Midland last week reminded me that there are some great things about small town life.  As we traveled toward the cemetary where Chuck’s grandmother would be buried, I watched cars pull over to the side of the road and some even get out of their cars in 105 degree heat to show R-E-S-P-E-C-T to the loved ones of the deceased.  It made me realize how rarely I see that courtesy now in the big city.  Then we passed a local high school whose football team was outside practicing.  I watched every young man and coach on that field take off their helmets and caps and take a knee until the entire procession had passed.  I cried all over again.  That’s how I spell respect.  But most of the time, we are all too busy to show respect for others.  We are too wrapped up in ourselves to give others much thought.  And I, sadly, must include myself.  “I can’t pull over for a funeral procession.  I’m already 5 minutes late as it is!”  “I can’t attend a funeral because I would miss a day of work or school.”  “I can’t honor my parents with a visit or respect their wishes because it would inconvenience me.”  
However, the air feels different today.  On the 10th anniversary of 9/11, many are taking time out to show respect to those who lost loved ones and those who served us.  Most people have stopped criticizing our government for one day and are exhorting our nation for rallying together and finding the strength to press on.  Those things are important to me, but I would be lying if I said that “pride” is what I feel today – as some are expressing.  10 years ago, I believed we were on the verge of a great revival in our nation as a result of this tragedy.  People appeared to be turning to God in their time of need.  But it was short-lived.  It didn’t take long after the dust cleared for our nation to decide, once again, that we could do life on our own.  God was forgotten.  It makes me sad to think about it.  As I sat in church this morning, I imagined that instead of the whole world stopping today to reflect on this act of evil, that the we were dedicating a day to remembering the goodness of God.  What if all believers dedicated one day to remembering the day of their salvation?  What if all the news stories today were about God moments – those bigger than life encounters with the Most Holy God?  The rescues, the blessings, the valuable adversities, and the truths revealed.  What would the air feel like today?  How would our world be changed?  
“A song of ascents.  I lift up my eyes to the mountains – where does my help come from?  My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.”  Psalm 121:1-2 NIV

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Murphy’s Week

November 11, 2015 by Lauren Leave a Comment

Originally published on Sept 5, 2011

“Though the fig tree should not blossom and there be no fruit on the vines, though the yield of the olive should fail and the fields produce no food, though the flock should be cut off from the fold and there be no cattle in the stalls, yet I will exult in the Lord, I will rejoice in the God of my salvation.”  Habakkuk 3:17-18

The passage above was the emphasis of the sermon I heard at church on Sunday.  It doesn’t matter that we have been in a series on Habakkuk and these verses were next in order, you can’t convince me that God didn’t hand pick these verses for me.  As a family, we had the craziest week.  One of those, can go wrong/ will go wrong kind of things.  I had to check and adjust my attitude many times.  Indulge me as I rewrite the scripture passage with my modern-day equivalent:
“Though Chuck’s grandmother pass away and we make a 2 day trip to Midland, though we leave on the same day demolition starts on our kitchen remodel, though we return at 9pm to no lights in our house as we ready our children for bed and school the next morning, though Chuck wakes up in the middle of the night with a kidney stone and takes himself to the hospital, though the sewer backs up leaving us without toilets while family is staying with us – causing us to drive to McDonald’s to do our business, though the ceiling leaks from another construction error, yet I will exult in the Lord, I will rejoice in the God of my salvation.”  Lauren 8/28-9/2
I wish I could say that exulting and rejoicing were my first reactions.  My entire week was rerouted, leaving me asking God, “Are you kidding me?”  Individually, all these things are so minor compared to Dravet Syndrome and other things we have endured.  And they are definitely minute compared to the tragedies others face every day, but I laughed and cried and threw a little pity party.  I started to feel like we were living in the Tom Hanks movie, “Money Pit” – things falling down around us.  I was put out, inconvenienced, and unnerved.  I like order to my world.  I don’t like to rearrange schedules and cancel appointments.  And I definitely don’t like to drive to McDonald’s to go to the bathroom!  But in all things, God has a way of bringing glory to Himself.  I am learning to serve Him in what I call the “ministry of interruptions”.  I like order so much, that I tend to get bent out of shape by the smallest disruption.  One of my sweet babies is sick so I have to find a substitute for my class and miss a workout.  Someone calls to talk to me when I am in the middle of ironing.  I need to cook and take a meal to someone so I don’t get my grocery shop done.  And God forbid someone should bother me during my quiet time!  I can be so task oriented (doing good things, mind you)- even when my week is normal and not murphey’s – that I miss out on opportunities to serve.  And I miss out on relationship with God and others.  So I’m taking a deep breath, and learning to praise God no matter what my day holds.  I’m thanking God through the touch times, knowing that it brings me to deeper dependence on Him.  And I look for the extra opportunites to minister that such times bring.  And I acknowledge the strength that God raises up in me to meet the challenges.  But if you hear me grumbling, be patient with me, and I’ll do the same for you.  Rejoicing takes practice.  :D

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I love Jesus, my husband and caffeine. The order of these can change depending on how tired I am. When my two daughters, stepson, and 4 grandchildren get to be too much, I practice yoga. God graciously allows me to share our adventures, victories and flub-ups from my laptop. May He be glorified here.
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