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Recognizing the Sacrifice

April 3, 2020 by Lauren 20 Comments

“I did not intend to give up this much for Lent!”  I stole this from a friend’s facebook feed because I think we all relate.  What initially felt like a little extra vacay now feels like a never ending groundhog day.

 

As a born and raised Southern Baptist, I wasn’t really taught to observe Lent.  For Easter itself we decorated, hunted eggs, cooked a ham and got new dresses (often homemade).  We also told the story of Jesus’ resurrection and invited others into it with us.  But the days leading up to Easter were just like any other.  As an adult, I have chosen to observe the tradition some years and others, not.  I have freedom in how I choose to remember Jesus.

 

Lent is defined as a solemn religious observance in the Christian liturgical calendar that begins on Ash Wednesday and ends six weeks later with the celebration of Easter Sunday.  The purpose is said to be the preparation of the believer for Easter through prayer, doing penance, mortifying the flesh, repentance of sins, alms giving and self-denial.  At least that’s what Wikipedia says.  Here in the western world we mostly talk about what we are “giving up” for Lent.  Believers abstain from something that will be a sacrifice for a number of reasons:  to participate in a small way in the sacrifice Jesus made for us, to learn to be more dependent on God, or to simply remind us of Him as we miss what we are missing.

 

I decided this year to give up sodas for Lent.  It may not seem like a huge deal to you, but it is.  The love I have for a beautiful, big ice cold Sonic Route 44 Diet Coke with Vanilla is real and it is deep.  Whew.  My mouth just filled with saliva.  I also made the commitment to spend more time in prayer and Bible study every day and do an extra devotional just for the season of Lent.  The time has been rich.  And I can’t wait to daily sit at His feet.

 

One of the themes I’ve really been camping on is the depth of Jesus’ love for us leading to the depth of His suffering for us.  For me.  Isaiah 53:3 says:

He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain.  Like one from whom people hide their faces he was despised, and we held him in low esteem.  NIV

 

I cannot get the last few words of this familiar verse out of my mind.  They hit me fresh and square in the face.  “we held him in low esteem”.  That not only refers to those alive to hear Isaiah’s words.  Jesus wasn’t even born then!  “We” is the people who refused to believe that He was God’s Son.  “We” is those who imprisoned Him and beat Him.  “We” is the official who sentenced Him to die as well as the soldier who actually hammered His flesh to the tree.  “We” is all today who don’t believe.  “We” is those who profess Him and yet deny His power in their own lives.  “We” is me!

 

Every time time I fail to seek Him I hold Him in low esteem.  Every day I’m too busy to spend time with Him I hold Him in low esteem.  Every time I fail to share the good news of salvation through Him I hold Him in low esteem.  Every little thing I turn to for comfort proves I hold Him in low esteem.  I love Him, I need Him and I am so grateful to Him.  But to be confronted with how little I actually think of Him is enough to make me weep.

 

Father God, please show me anything and everything that I hold up as more important than you.  Help me put to death the things that hold your rightful place.  May I learn more every day how to give you precedence in the heart that you have redeemed from sin and suffering.  Forgive me for failing you in this way.  I praise you and lift you up above all else.  Keep your praise flowing from my lips and fingertips until it is second nature to me.  I love you and thank you for sending your Son to die for my sins.  Amen. 

 

And now for this week’s featured post.

 

I was so encouraged to read Your Testimony After These Hard Times by Sarah Geringer because God has been impressing so many of the same things on me.  God does not waste our hard things!  Oh the stories of His faithfulness we will have to share if we just lean into Him now.  Click here to read the post and show Sarah some love for linking up with us.

 

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link Up

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A Muster of a Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad Month…and Grace and Truth Link Up

March 27, 2020 by Lauren 20 Comments

How do I even begin to wrap up a month as wild as this one.  We are living in an unprecedented global situation so I can’t pretend that everything is normal.  COVID-19 is changing our world as we know it with consequences ranging from inconvenient to catastrophic – depending on many variables.  What I can do is tell you what we managed to do before the world (almost) stopped turning and what we are doing now to cope.  Know that I am praying for you and I am here if you need to vent or have prayer requests or just need to communicate with someone other than your kids!  Pop over to my contact tab and send me an e-mail or comment on this blog post.  Or click on my social media buttons on the right hand side of this page.  To quote from the modern day classic High School Musical, “We’re all in this together.”

 

We started the month with some presidential primaries.  Maybe that should have been an ominous foreshadowing of things to come.  I picked up an extra work shift helping at a memorial service.  That was an interesting first, but now that I can’t work at all because I’m in the fitness/ service industry, I’m thankful for those few extra hours.

 

I praised God for one friend and one family member who received favorable medical news this month and thanked Him for the opportunity to have lunch with both sisters and two childhood friends – all together.  So fun.  We were in church youth group together just a couple of years ago.  Such great memories.  And then a couple of days later, my favorite hairdresser/friend (ok she’s the only one who fits both of those descriptions for me) treated me to the best chinese restaurant.  Yum!

 

My 15 year old daughter spent the genesis of her spring break in Austin helping out our church plant there.  Then I took her to get her first hair highlights (done by the same fabulous hairdresser/ friend).   My oldest, Shelby, enjoyed Camp Summit during her time off of school (little did we know there was much more time off to come).  This camp for special needs kids and adults provides fun, healthy activities for her and much needed respite from caregiving for my husband and myself.

 

The second half of spring break, we headed to the St. Louis area to see our son and his kids.  Being with them is always a whirlwind of activity including a trip to Meramec Caverns, ice cream treats, playing outside and a disgusting round of Beanboozled!  I really enjoyed getting to see our son and put my arms around him during a difficult time.

 

Then the times got more difficult.  With the announcements that the kids would be out of school for two weeks (at least) and my son needing to work as a doctor, we made the last minute decision to bring the two oldest kidlets back to Texas with us.  So this very non-kid person has been entertaining without the benefit of movie theaters, bowling alleys, libraries or any other public attractions.  I know many of you can relate right now.  So we have done online art classes, music lessons, cookie baking, game playing and lots of park time when the weather permitted.  Thanks to some amazing neighbors we even acquired a bike and a scooter for them to use.

 

Tucked in around the edges of grandparenting, we watched Dolly Parton’s Heart Strings.  I loved most of the stories but wouldn’t recommend all.  We checked out Stargirl on Disney+ with our teen.  A sweet teen-centric drama.  She also talked us into The Perfect Date with Noah Centineo.  The hubs and I caught Murder Mystery, Always Be My Maybe and Brad Paisley’s Comedy Rodeo.  We also watched the first episode of the Netflix series Murderous Affairs (Don’t judge.  I unfortunately knew the subjects.), and a couple episodes of The Movies that Made Us and The Toys that Made Us.   My sister and I caught Emma at the movie theater and I finished two books – Out of a Far Country:  A Gay Son’s Journey to God, a Broken Mother’s Search for Hope by Christopher Yuan and Angela Yuan, and Wally Funk’s Race for Space:  The Extraordinary Story of a Female Aviation Pioneer by Sue Nelson (mentioned in last week’s post).

 

To wrap up, reader friends, the days ahead will not be easy.  Just know that it’s ok to have lows – to feel sad or frustrated or even a little anxious.  But lean into our Heavenly Father.  None of this surprises Him and He is our ultimate source of comfort and purpose.  And I consider it an honor to pray for you.  If you need to vent or have specific needs, please reach out to me.  And tell me, too, if you have been given the gift of extra time (I realize this does not apply to everyone), what are you doing with it?

 

 

And now for this week’s featured post!

 

I love the honesty and realism that Linda Stoll expresses in This One’s for Anyone Who’s Not Feeling Especially Strong and Courageous Right Now.  The truth is that you can hold both anxiety and faith in God at the same time.  So often we pressure ourselves that it has to be one or the other, but this post shows what it is to be human – and have faith.  Visit Linda at lindastoll.net and thank her for linking up.

 

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

 

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link Up

 

Grace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

Join us each Friday for the Grace and Truth Link-Up!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

 

 

Maree Dee

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Lauren Sparks

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Heather Hart & Valerie Riese

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Lisa Burgess

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1.)  Following your hosts via their blog and social media channels is not mandatory, but appreciated!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

2.) Leave 1-2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. Please do not link DIY, Crafts, Recipes, etc. We will delete these links. We also reserve the right to remove articles that don’t align with the theme or are deemed by the hostesses to be inappropriate.

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4.) We sort all links randomly – feel free to link as early or as late as you’d like. The playing field is even!

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5.) Grab a button or link back to encourage new linkers. It is not mandatory, but it is required to be featured.

6.) Each host will choose one link to emphasize and promote via their social media channels next week.

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And now, let’s link up!

 

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