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Amassing August

August 29, 2019 by Lauren 28 Comments

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It’s 97 degrees right now at 6:14pm in the Dallas area.  It actually doesn’t feel that bad considering most of the month temps reached 100.  That’s August in Texas and I say “GOOD RIDDANCE” to it.  While running errands, my deodorant outlives its usefulness in the 2 minute walk between building and car.  Color me over it!  Although we still have a month or two of wearing shorts around these parts, when the calendar turns to September I can at least START to imagine Fall around the corner.

 

Shelby attended Camp Blessing the first few days of August.  The owners and volunteers of this camp for special needs kids and adults do amazing work.  Shelby had a fantastic time while Chuck and I helped ourselves to some much needed respite.  Allie, my youngest, made the high school volleyball team on the 2nd and started games on the 3rd.  I’m excited that she earned her spot, but proud of how hard she worked to overcome her fear and anxiety.  To be honest, my girls don’t have to do anything to make me proud.  I was as proud as the proverbial peacock they day they were born and they hadn’t done a single thing.  If you feel the same way about your kids, make sure they know it.

 

Our church hosted Brett Kunkle, co-author of A Practical Guide to Culture:  Helping the Next Generation Navigate Today’s World.  I think I’ve mentioned the book here a time or ten.  I can’t say enough good about it.  My family also attended a prayer event there called Battle on Our Knees.  We spent time in guided prayer for our students, teachers, administrators and parents for back to school.  I can’t think of a better way to spend our time.  This month has also driven us to our knees for some loved ones fighting through medical and spiritual challenges.  Our hearts are a little heavy but it’s so reassuring to know that God carries that load for us.

 

Mid month Allie and I joined her cousin and my sister-in-law for a little girls weekend.  We traveled down I-35 for our other sister-in-law’s baby shower.  We ate, celebrated the next Baby Sparks and did a little back to school shopping.  When we got back in town we hit the ground running with Freshman orientations for parent and child, fundraisers, meetings, volunteering and a pep rally – all in preparation for the first day of school.  Both girls met the challenges of the first weeks with grace and aplomb.  I’m so thankful.  Allie will be in two choirs this year and had a lake party to get in tune with her new friends (see what I did there?).  And next week we have a meeting to kick off another round of Special Olympics for Shelby.

 

In entertainment news, we took the family and two of Allie’s friends to see Blinded by the Light.  So good.  This movie, based on a true story, follows a Pakistani teen in England in the 1980’s.  Bruce Springsteen lyrics motivated him to rise up from the persecution he faced and the old fashioned patriarchy of his family to chase his dreams.  I liked it so much that I woke up thinking about it the next morning.  Critics agree with me.  Fourteen year old middle class American girls – not so much.

 

Chuck and I (big Dallas Cowboy fans – don’t come at me, haters) got to tour the world headquarters of America’s team at the Frisco Star.  We had such a good time gawking at this state of the art facility and hearing about some of the fun history of the team.  Did you know Emmitt Smith’s scouting report shows him to be careless with the ball and lacking work ethic?  Please, did you SEE him on Dancing with the Stars?  Yeah, me neither.  We also saw the back-up QB Cooper Rush and Jason Witten, who is my husband’s favorite player.  Probably mine too.  I won’t post those pictures because I accidentally illegally took them.  I somehow missed the announcement that we could take pictures of anything except other people.  Oops.

 

I just finished reading The Wondering Years by Knox McCoy.  I love, love, love the Popcast podcast he co-hosts with Jamie Golden and was stoked when my best friend surprised me with the book.  If you enjoy some snarky humor and an unorthodox take on growing up as an evangelical Christian, grab a copy.  And use my link.  I would so appreciate it.  Today, I picked up Sex, Jesus, and the Conversations the Church Forgot by Mo Isom.  It comes highly recommended.  And last, I’m using Seeing God’s Hand:  Through the Art of Sign Language by Connie Rowland in my daily time with the Lord.  The author sweetly encourages me through the pages to look for God’s hand in the world.  What a timely message for us all today.

 

And that’s my month.  The good, the bad and the sweaty.  Thanks for following along.  I’d love to hear what YOU did this month.  Or what you’re reading.  Or watching.  Drop me a comment below.  Until next time, I love you, I thank you and I pray September treats you well.

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Dumpster Fire Day

August 22, 2019 by Lauren 44 Comments

Last night my husband said, “We need to talk about tomorrow morning.  I need to be at work at 6:30.”  I said, “I don’t guess we really need to talk about it.  I just need to take Allie to school.”  And we went to bed.  I guess we should have talked about it some more, because I woke up this morning at 7:19, about the time we usually leave the house to take Allie to school.  Both of the kids were still asleep.

 

I darted into Supermom mode and roused the girls while stepping into clothes for work.  I got Shelby dressed and brushed her hair and microwaved breakfast sandwiches for us all to eat in the car (thank you, God for convenience foods).  I got Allie (who said she would do her hair at school) to school on time and careened onto my street to see Shelby’s bus already parked in front of my house and waiting.  I pulled up beside the driver to ask him to move the bus so I could pull into my driveway to get my daughter safely out of the car and onto the yellow dog.  I ran up to the house and grabbed her back pack and sent her on her way.

 

I then had 15 minutes to change from house shoes to real ones, put on make-up, fix my hair, make coffee (priorities) and grab my lunch to get out the door.  I cut a few corners on the make-up (who am I kidding anyway) and was miraculously about to jump in the car with no seconds to spare – when I saw it.  Shelby’s anti-seizure meds still sitting on the counter.  I deflated like an old balloon.  I called my boss as I jumped in my Toyota and apologized while telling her I had to make a stop at my daughter’s school and would be late.

 

I made it in 30 minutes late to a day so busy and hectic that I got to go relieve myself only once and had a few seconds to heat up my lunch before returning to my desk to scarf it down.  The one time I did go to the john, I looked in the mirror and saw the horror that was the bra/ shirt combo I had chosen.  I worked an extra 40 minutes (maybe making up for the morning), leaving with just enough time to get to Allie’s school for pick up.  After taking her straight to a neighborhood babysitting job, I pulled up to my house the same time as Shelby’s caseworker with whom I had an appointment.  I let her in the service entrance (a.k.a the garage) with me and Allie’s dog Monkey escaped like a convict with a taste of freedom.  I ushered the case worker in and then proceeded to chase this demon chihuahua down the street until I gave up and came back to greet my guest – a disheveled mess (me, not her).

 

Monkey came back and scratched at the door a few minutes later (“It’s not so bad living in our cool, cozy house, is it you ingrate?”), and I wrapped up the meeting with MHMR just in time to visit the little cowgirl’s room for only the second time today before shoving Shelby back in the car to go to speech therapy.  If you didn’t catch that she was home with me, it’s because I can’t remember when, in between all this other stuff, I got her off the bus.  And now after arriving home, making dinner, cleaning up the kitchen and helping my husband look for his keys, I am finally sitting in my favorite chair and almost relaxed.

 

Why did I tell you all of this?  Because just in case I have EVER given you the impression here on my blog that I have all my chili together, I want to assure you that

I am just like you. ONLY WORSE.

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I love Jesus, my husband and caffeine. The order of these can change depending on how tired I am. When my two daughters, stepson, and 4 grandchildren get to be too much, I practice yoga. God graciously allows me to share our adventures, victories and flub-ups from my laptop. May He be glorified here.
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