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It Must Have Been the End of July

July 25, 2019 by Lauren 26 Comments

Teach us to number our days,
     that we may gain a heart of wisdom.Psalm 90:12 NIV

 

How is another month already drawing to a close?  Before you know it, the kids will be back in school.  (Shhh.  I whispered that last sentence as not to accidentally cast my youngest into the pit of despair.)   I started the month off by gettin’ my hair did.  If you don’t think that’s blog worthy, then your beauty operator (oh I’m giggling at myself now.  That’s what my grandmother used to call herself back in the day.) isn’t as good as mine.  I shouldn’t brag – or maybe I should.  She’s the talented one.  Not me.  And I am so fortunate that she is also a sister in Christ and a fabulous friend.  So appointments are anointed girl time.  I look AND feel good afterward.

 

The same day (a day of appointments)I had to start a brand new professional relationship.  A doctor I have been with for 16 years moved out of state.  She delivered Allie, she operated on me and Shelby, she went through breast cancer the same time I did and gave me the good advice.  Sigh.  Sad to see her go, but I’m starting over with one of her partners and praying for a fruitful association.

 

My little family celebrated our country’s independence with my in-laws.  My husband’s parents have a great house and property on a lake where the kids enjoyed skiing and tubing.  We ate good food, had great conversations with Chuck’s brothers and wives and played games.  The best part, though, is the fireworks show over the lake.  We can sit on the back deck or even in recliners in the air conditioned living room and watch the spectacle.  No heat, no crowds, no crazy drunks.  Just the show.  God Bless America.

 

Spider-Man:  Far From Home and Toy Story 4 drew us into the theater.  I give two thumbs up to both.  Or certify them fresh or whatever.  At home we watched A Little Bit of Heaven with Kate Hudson.  I had never heard of it. Probably because it has a few really cheesy scenes of an imagined heaven.  I don’t think I’ve ever seen this done well in a movie.  But it made me laugh and in the end bawl like my heart was broken.  So I guess it’s not all bad.

 

Our oldest baby Shelby turned 19.  My parents, sisters and their families came to celebrate with her and a Minnie Mouse cake.  I’m not sure how she has blessed this earth for that long already, but we don’t take it for granted.  Every time I hear of another child losing their battle with Dravet Syndrome I’m thankful for each and every day we get with her joy and laughter.

 

As a couple, Chuck and I are usually pretty socially lame, but we had 2 double dates this month.  Two!  And from one of them came this nugget:  “When your teenager comes home, always be happy to see them.”  You may be thinking that sounds simple and maybe even – duh.  But it was such a good word that I needed.  My friend also told me about complaining of  her teen’s attitude to another friend once who said to her, “Oh.  I didn’t know she was pregnant.”  My friend said, “Say what?”  The reply – “I didn’t know your girl was hooked on drugs.”  The point?  So your teenager has an attitude?  Whose doesn’t.  There are bigger fish you could be frying.  So I can be happy to see my girl.  Attitude or not.

 

I’m so thankful for new friends and growing friendships and wisdom and laughter and sharing. 

Community in Christ is where it’s at.

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It’s not always easy to come by and have time for.  So I’m eternally grateful.

 

I am currently reading free kindle books of funny memes because that is the extent of my current mental capacity.  My husband has worked a lot.  And I have worked a little for pay and a lot as volunteer uber and family activity coordinator (come quickly school year, come quickly).  Chuck is getting some intensive training right now for his new job and Allie is fully immersed into tryouts for high school volleyball.  May we all survive both and find ways to glorify God along the way.  Love you, thank you, and pray August treats you well.

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What a Dead Dog, the Good Samaritan and Voicemail Have in Common

January 24, 2019 by Lauren 42 Comments

Photo by Tyler Nix on Unsplash

At the tender driving age of 16, I ran over a dog.  The whole story embarrasses me, but we are friends.  So here goes.  I was driving a Ford Tempo that I shared with my twin sister on a very dark farm-to-market road…with two kids I babysat for in the backseat…when I practically went airborne.  This dog was massive.  If I had not seen him with my own eyes, I would have sworn he was a small horse.  It still flabbergasts me that the little car survived unscathed.

 

I was crestfallen to think I had hurt and probably killed him.  But it was not safe to stop the car there with no streetlights around and two children to take care of.  So I continued on to my destination with my heart pounding up near my esophagus.  I returned home a bit later on the same country road.  Remembering about where I had struck the poor animal, I pulled way over to the opposite side of the road and drove on the shoulder to make sure I missed him.  And then I plowed over a surprise bump.  It was so very dark, but I immediately knew that the dog had dragged himself to the other side of the road and laid down.  And I ran over him again.  I sought to show him mercy by keeping to the other side of the road and ended up hurting him worse.  As I retell it I still feel all of the disbelief and shame I did that night.

 

My pastor’s reading of the Good Samaritan story on Sunday sparked this memory.  From Luke 10 Jesus tells a parable of a man going down a road who was robbed and beaten and left half-dead.  A priest and a priest’s assistant both came by, saw him and moved over to the other side of the street to avoid him.  In so doing, just like I did all those years ago, they did him additional harm.  The Samaritan man came along next, and even though he had places he needed to be, he dressed the man’s wounds and took him to an inn.  Having other business to attend to, he paid someone else to nurse this stranger back to health.

 

It’s messy and inconvenient to be a friend, isn’t it?

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Hearing the familiar story this time made me think about how many different ways we have now to “walk on the other side of the road”.  When we don’t feel like getting involved, we can hide someone on social media.  We can avoid them at church or the office.  We can close our garage door when our neighbors are outside.  When we think we don’t have the time we can let the phone go to voicemail or choose not to respond to a text.

 

I listened to Bob Goff interviewed on a podcast recently, and he challenged me on this very issue.  (If you haven’t heard him tell a story or read one of his books, I would beg you to do so immediately.  Love Does and Everybody Always just might change the way you view how you should interact with the world.)  Bob’s message is always and forever to love people.  And in this interview he said, “The best way to show someone they have worth is to be available.”  For this to be true, the opposite is true as well.  If you want to send a message that someone is inconsequential (whether you intend to or not), ignore the text, decline the invitation, take days to return the voice mail, “walk on the other side of the street”.

 

“Beloved children, our love can’t be an abstract theory we only talk about but a way of life demonstrated through our loving deeds.”  1 John 3:18 The Passion Translation

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I love Jesus, my husband and caffeine. The order of these can change depending on how tired I am. When my two daughters, stepson, and 4 grandchildren get to be too much, I practice yoga. God graciously allows me to share our adventures, victories and flub-ups from my laptop. May He be glorified here.
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