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An Election Year and Titus

April 5, 2024 by Lauren 4 Comments

The term election year is a misnomer.  Although we elect a president every 4 years we have the opportunity to vote on something every year.  So since every year is an election year, and this one is shaping up to be as contentious as ever, I have not been able to stop thinking about a sermon I heard at church a few weeks ago.  Don’t close this without reading because I mentioned politics.  I won’t be choosing sides or stomping on anyone’s toes but my own.

 

This is the passage I want to emphasize today:

“Remind them to be subject to rulers, to authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good deed, 2 to slander no one, not to be contentious, to be gentle, showing every consideration for all people. 3 For we too were once foolish, disobedient, deceived, enslaved to various lusts and pleasures, spending our life in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another. 4 But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared, 5 He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we did in righteousness, but in accordance with His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit, 6 whom He richly poured out upon us through Jesus Christ our Savior, 7 so that being justified by His grace we would be made heirs [a]according to the hope of eternal life.”  Titus 3:1-7 NASB

 

The first thing in this sermon to prick my conscience was this question:  “When was the last time you prayed a meaningful prayer for Joe Biden, Kamala Harris, the Supreme Court, military leaders, congressmen, the governor?”  Ouch.  My honest confession today is that I complain about our political leaders much more than I pray for them.  Probably 10 to 1 or more.  And this can’t be.  Especially in an “election year”.

 

In light of that, contemplate this next statement with me.  “When Christians become political, sinners become the enemy and not the mission field.”  Let’s break this down.

  1.  Does this mean that Christians should not be involved in politics?  No.  We need believers in Jesus Christ who will get out and vote their conscience, no matter what is on the ballot.  And we must have genuine people who will put Christ first willing to run for office – from school board to the highest position in the land.
  2. Does this mean that everyone who disagrees with us is not Christian?  That is a big, hard no.  Even if they disagree on something we hold a strong moral stance on.  It could just mean that they have a different life experience and, therefore, a different point of view.  It may also mean they are looking at the candidate or party as a whole – disagreeing with somethings, but agreeing with others.  You know what they say about assuming…
  3. When we constantly view those who hold opposing political views as enemies, we cease to see them as people made in God’s image.  We should never care more about someone’s stance then we do their soul.  Loving like Jesus does not mean voting for one party of the other.  Especially when so many of us feel politically homeless in our current climate.

My prayer is that we would all approach politics with not only compassion, but humility.  There is no side that is right on every single issue.  And none of us has it all figured out.  Taylor Swift was not the first person to point the finger at herself as the problem.  In 1905, G.K. Chesterton wrote in a letter to the editor of the Daily News, “What’s wrong with the world today?  I am.”  And I think I might just need to reread Titus 3:1-7 every day until I can remember that.

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Take Off the Gloves! A Guide to Political and Other Discourse

October 16, 2020 by Lauren 24 Comments

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19 My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, 20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.  James 1:19-20  NIV

 

I often pray the words, “Lord, come quickly.”  I recently added the prayer, “Let the election pass quickly.”  People seem to lose their ever loving minds over presidential elections.  Social media turns into a hotbed of hatred and vitriol – even more so than usual.  And from my vantage point, Christians often shout the loudest and fling the most poo.  This both frustrates and saddens me.

 

There is a reason people say we should never talk about politics or religion at the dinner table.  And it’s not because those topics aren’t interesting.  We have simply forgotten (or maybe never taught) how to listen to people we disagree with.  I use the election as a current and relevant thorn in my side, but we could just as well substitute racial equality, differences in theology, our response to COVID-19, or a slew of other hot topics.

 

John 13:35 says, By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.  NIV  What I have never seen in the Bible is that we will show others we follow Jesus with our anti-fill in the blank rhetoric.  I don’t know how “love one another” got translated to “convince you to think just like me”.  And even if it did, I don’t see the arguing leading to much convincing.  If anything, it’s just causing more arguing.

 

I think our conversations become so cyclical and fruitless because we fail in the art of listening well.  In a debate (friendly or not), we most often listen only long enough to formulate our counter-point instead of listening to understand.  It’s a problem as old as time.  I mean, did you see the 1st presidential debate?  Or some would say debacle?  Proverbs 18:13  NIV states, To answer before listening—that is folly and shame.  But that foolishness is exactly what most of us do.  So how can we listen better, and as a result, conduct healthier dialogue?  

 

1.  Be About the Relationship

 

God is love, and the Bible tells the story of His love relationship with us from beginning to end.  His word commands us to love others because He loves us (1 John 4:19) and love is about relationship.  Our goal in any interaction – whether in person or online – should be to show Christ-like love.  If we are primarily motivated by forming, maintaining or furthering relationship with another, we will naturally use language that encourages, builds up and shows compassion.  Care more about the person than your point.

 

2.  Ask Clarifying Questions

 

In a sermon a couple of months ago, my pastor suggested saying, “Help me understand… (what you said, what you’re feeling, what lead you to your opinion or ideas).  How did you arrive at that conclusion?”  Knowing where someone else is coming from leads to fewer misunderstandings and promotes empathy, which benefits the relationship.  It also gives you the opportunity to think twice and speak once, which also leads to fewer misunderstandings.

 

3.  Present Your “Side” with Permission

 

This suggestion came from my wise pastor as well.  Ask permission to ask questions about what’s been said.  Then say, “Is it okay if I share some thoughts on some things I see differently?”  Become less of a bulldozer.  You are entitled to your opinion, but you aren’t always entitled to share it.  Having the humility to ask for permission shows respect for the individual (remember relationship is the goal).  And let’s be honest, mowing over someone with your ideas or beliefs never really works.

 

Let’s open our ears and rain down grace on those we come in contact with.  2020 has been hard enough.

 

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I just featured Barbara Harper of Stray Thoughts last week, but I had to do it again.  I think she is somehow reading my mind and my struggles!  In What Do You Look for When You Read the Bible, she touched on reading the Bible for truth and not just to speak into our current struggle or feeling.  I believe God often does that for us with His word, but this seeking out this type of study is a slippery slope to twisting God’s word to meet our narrative.  Thank you, Barbara, for this glimpse of the whole of God’s Word.

 

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