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What Are the Rumble Strips in Your Life?

May 12, 2023 by Lauren 8 Comments

Have you ever dozed off at the wheel?  During college it happened to me with much more frequency than I like to admit, and it terrified me.  Not enough to miss a party and get more sleep (don’t get crazy), but enough to wake me up in the moment.  Sometimes rumble strips were my saving grace.  I tried to look up whether or not every state in the US employs rumble strips but had trouble nailing that down.  What I did find?  As of 2009, 35 states had installed them.  Hey, I am nothing if not current.

 

In case you don’t have rumble strips where you are, they are a series of raised strips running along the outside lanes on a road or highway that change the sound a vehicle’s tires make.  The noise alerts the driver if they drift off of the road and hopefully prevents accidents.  Whether one falls asleep or is simply not paying close attention, those rumble strips wake up a driver quickly.

 

What rumble strips to you have in your life?  Those people or things that help you stay on the right path and alert you to impending danger?

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It can be easy for me to fall asleep to God’s good plans and design – especially during times I let myself get too busy.  For parents of school-aged kids, May is a killer month.  I’m running to keep up with a hectic pace, so I’m so thankful for my rumble strips.  Here’s what keeps me between the lines:

 

1.  God’s Word

The holy scriptures are the plumb line I measure everything else by.  Maintaining the discipline of daily time in God’s guide book for us is definitely the number one way I stave off the drift.  Reading the bible, studying commentary and original language, praying the verses and listening to our church’s Sunday morning teaching are all ways I immerse myself in the way, the truth and the life (John 14:6).   I still mess up daily, but I cannot imagine where I would be without God speaking to me through His Word.

 

2.  Accountability

Being accountable to another person – be it a spouse, friends, bible study group, a counselor or minister, or all of these – keeps me honest.  Sharing what I struggle with not only takes the power out of my secrets, but strengthens and deepens my community.  And knowing that someone I love and respect could check in with me on my “thing” at any time definitely plays into how I choose to engage or not engage that “thing”.

 

3.  Leaving Room for the Holy Spirit

John 14:26 tells us, “But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.”  But how can the Spirit remind us of what we have learned in the scriptures if we aren’t listening?  As difficult as it may be in our culture, I have to slow down enough and have some quiet space to hear from God’s Holy Spirit.  Filling every minute with noise and activity will drown out His voice.  Our triune God is a gentleman and won’t force Himself on us.  We must intentionally invite Him with a hospitable heart and mind.

 

In addition, I shouldn’t grieve or quench the Holy Spirit.  Ephesians 4 gives us a list of things that do just that, including but not limited to, living like unbelievers, lying, stealing, unforgiveness and sexual immorality.  We all mess up.  It’s inevitable, but its living self-focused instead of God focused that steers us off course.  Continuing in unconfessed sin will muffle the guidance of the Holy Spirit more and more the longer it goes on.

 

Your Turn

 

The challenge, should you choose to accept it, is to thank God for the rumble strips in your life.  And if you can’t think of any, establish some.  Borrow mine or pray and listen for the Holy Spirit’s guidance on what you should do to keep yourself on the right road.

 

By the way, after I started writing this I thought of how the newer makes and models of cars actually have built in alarms for when we veer out of our lane.  So rumble strips could become obsolete.  As I said earlier, I’m nothing if not current.  But we can choose to disable those alarms if we want.  That could be dangerous.  As it would be for me to drive through life without God’s Word, accountability and the Holy Spirit.

 

And now for this week’s featured post from the link up!

 

I thoroughly enjoyed Learning to Develop Regular Rhythms of Fasting by Sarah J. Callen.  I had never thought about fasting as a discipline that could be practiced in community, but now I can’t stop thinking about it!

 

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First Friday Prayers: Words for the Graduates

May 5, 2023 by Lauren 4 Comments

Words for the graduatesHere we are in May.  Graduations for high school seniors, college students, pre-schoolers and kindergartners lurk just around the corner.  I volunteered to help plan the baccalaureate service for my daughter’s class.  If you aren’t familiar with the baccalaureate tradition, it is a religious service – often interfaith – held before commencement with a sermon featuring farewell words for the graduates.  In our case, it is student and parent led and held off campus.

 

Wanting to make sure my girl got to experience this sweet custom, I met with a group of other moms and discussed speakers, worship songs and scripture readings.  Colossians 1:9-12 was bandied about as a great passage for these kids entering a new phase of life.  And now I can’t stop praying it for my girl.

 

For this reason we also, since the day we heard about it, have not ceased praying for you and asking that you may be filled with the [a]knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, 10 so that you will walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, [b]to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work and [c]increasing in the [d]knowledge of God; 11 strengthened with all power, according to [e]His glorious might, [f]for the attaining of all perseverance and [g]patience; joyously 12 giving thanks to the Father, who has qualified us [h]to share in the inheritance of the [i]saints in light. NASB

 

I also prayed this passage repeatedly for my now grown bonus son during his teenaged years.  There is so much here.  We could pray a different piece of this passage every day of the week for our loved ones.  But for our First Friday Prayer purposes, I’ll condense my prayer to these words for the graduates:

Replace the pronouns with the appropriate ones for the person (or yourself) that you are praying for.  Non-graduates included.  This passage is great to pray year-round.  And I’m praying for you in this.  Don’t forget to share on social media or with a friend who could benefit.  It would mean so much to me.  And if you don’t want to miss a Praying God’s Word Wednesday, subscribe over on the right hand side of this page.

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And now for this week’s featured post from the link up!

I enjoyed reading Beth Willis Miller’s thoughts on Psalm 23.  The passage is so familiar but her post proves how living and active God’s Word is.  Always learning something new.

 

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Up Up and Away, April

April 28, 2023 by Lauren 14 Comments

Time…slow…down.  As I am writing this, we just got home from eating lunch after church.  My daughter Allie helped lead worship this morning and I am painfully aware that the number of these opportunities is dwindling.  She graduates in one month and two days.  Not that I’m counting.  But I do know that in a couple of days, April is up up and away and we’re moving toward May.  In the mean time, we are relishing every last!

 

April Fools Day had me working a casino party for the senior adults at the REC center where I work and Allie attending (along with gobs of other teen girls) a Taylor Swift concert.  And now we shall move on to more wholesome endeavors (said in my best SNL church lady voice)!  Also in the first week both of Allie’s school choirs won Sweepstakes at UIL!

 

Our Easter Sunday was lovely.  Allie wanted to attend the sunrise service.  I was less motivated to get up for that, but we went to the 8am to make room in the more crowded services for guests.  Allie stayed and worshipped with us for that one too.  Then we drove the hour and a half to my parents’ church to surprise them and worship there with them.  We picked up lunch for us all and then my sisters and their families joined us there in the afternoon.

 

I got to have lunch with one of my dearest friends, her adult daughter and her daughter’s precious daughter mid-month.  Such a wonderful visit and a joy to hold that sweet baby.  I hope we get to do it again very soon.  Two days later I got to lunch with my sister and one of our friends from high school/ college.  An embarrassment of riches for me to get so much family and friend time in one week!  In between I finally got to graduate out of my adult braces and attended a celebration of life for a dear man we were in life group with for years.

 

More April Antics

 

I got to treat my girl to pedicures and nails in preparation for her senior prom.  Taking pictures of her and her friends was so fun.  And in my obviously biased opinion, Allie wore one of the most beautiful gowns I’ve ever seen.  And it perfectly suited her personality.  She had a ball at the ball and then brought a group of friends over to watch a movie.  Rowdy bunch!

 

Our Shelby started physical therapy for the first time since her spinal surgery in January and is working hard.  We are so pleased that she appears to be in a lot less pain and is starting to move a little faster and more freely.  Prayers are being answered as she is better able to enjoy her friends and navigate her environment.

 

When the Baylor Alumni come to town, Chuck, Shelby and I get to go to Top Golf with our friends!  I am just as bad at golf as I thought I would be, but we had a really fun night nonetheless.  Sometimes laughing at how bad you are is even more fun than being good at something.  At least that’s what I’m telling myself.  Besides, I got to take a pic with the president of the university and won a door prize!

 

The next day I drove back to my mom’s to attended a ladies’ luncheon at her church.  A speaker from Mama Bear Apologetics knocked my socks off.  And no, this has nothing to do with Baylor and everything to do with strategies for teaching your children and grandchildren how to defend their faith.  Check out their website, resources and books at the link above.  You won’t be sorry.

 

I’ve kept busy this last week working (including a 70’s themed Member Appreciation), attending choir board meeting, baccalaureate planning, and staying with my sister in the hospital following surgery.  And tonight, we will soak in every minute of Allie’s last high school Jazz Show.   To top it all off, this Sunday is Senior Sunday, where all the graduating seniors are recognized.  Lord, help me!

 

Entertainment

 

To distract and entertain ourselves, Chuck, Shelby and I went to the theater to see Air:  A Story of Greatness.  We enjoyed this story of how the Air Jordan basketball shoe came to be, but I could have done without about 200 F-bombs.  I always think true stories are the best stories and aside from the language, this one delivered.   At home we watched the mini-series Daisy Jones and the Six on Amazon Prime after hearing several positive reviews.  I will give it the same thumbs down for language and there is a LOT of drug use.  But it’s telling the story of a rock band in the 70’s (some say loosely based on Stevie Nicks).  And it’s a cautionary tale.  With a couple of surprises if you haven’t read the book.  I am currently obsessed with a the soundtrack.

 

I listened to Bono’s memoir Surrender:  40 Songs, One Story.  It is really long so you may not want to attempt it if you aren’t a U2 super fan.  I am only a casual fan of the music, but I’m rather fascinated by the man.  Probably because I can’t quite figure out a man who quotes scripture on one page and curses on the next.  He is social activist and devoted follower of Jesus.  He’s rock and roll and small group bible study.  This book did nothing to help me figure him out, but it was interesting in some places and way too wordy in others.  If you decide to tackle it, choose the audio.  You get his voice as well as snippets of all the songs as he talks about them.  But be forewarned, it’s over 20 hours long.

 

Since I was in a memoir mood, I checked out Waxing On:  The Karate Kid and Me by Ralph Macchio.  If you are child of the ’80s, this is a fun, easy read.  And I completed The 4:8 Principle:  The Secret to a Joy-Filled Life by Tommy Newberry, which I wrote about here.

 

And now for this week’s featured post from the link up.

 

Heather Hart of Candidly Christian has crawled into my brain with her post When Things Go Wrong.  The last few years have called me to trust on the Lord more than I ever knew I would need to or could.  And this post is an encouragement for such a time as these.

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