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What Are the Rumble Strips in Your Life?

May 12, 2023 by Lauren 8 Comments

Have you ever dozed off at the wheel?  During college it happened to me with much more frequency than I like to admit, and it terrified me.  Not enough to miss a party and get more sleep (don’t get crazy), but enough to wake me up in the moment.  Sometimes rumble strips were my saving grace.  I tried to look up whether or not every state in the US employs rumble strips but had trouble nailing that down.  What I did find?  As of 2009, 35 states had installed them.  Hey, I am nothing if not current.

 

In case you don’t have rumble strips where you are, they are a series of raised strips running along the outside lanes on a road or highway that change the sound a vehicle’s tires make.  The noise alerts the driver if they drift off of the road and hopefully prevents accidents.  Whether one falls asleep or is simply not paying close attention, those rumble strips wake up a driver quickly.

 

What rumble strips to you have in your life?  Those people or things that help you stay on the right path and alert you to impending danger?

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It can be easy for me to fall asleep to God’s good plans and design – especially during times I let myself get too busy.  For parents of school-aged kids, May is a killer month.  I’m running to keep up with a hectic pace, so I’m so thankful for my rumble strips.  Here’s what keeps me between the lines:

 

1.  God’s Word

The holy scriptures are the plumb line I measure everything else by.  Maintaining the discipline of daily time in God’s guide book for us is definitely the number one way I stave off the drift.  Reading the bible, studying commentary and original language, praying the verses and listening to our church’s Sunday morning teaching are all ways I immerse myself in the way, the truth and the life (John 14:6).   I still mess up daily, but I cannot imagine where I would be without God speaking to me through His Word.

 

2.  Accountability

Being accountable to another person – be it a spouse, friends, bible study group, a counselor or minister, or all of these – keeps me honest.  Sharing what I struggle with not only takes the power out of my secrets, but strengthens and deepens my community.  And knowing that someone I love and respect could check in with me on my “thing” at any time definitely plays into how I choose to engage or not engage that “thing”.

 

3.  Leaving Room for the Holy Spirit

John 14:26 tells us, “But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.”  But how can the Spirit remind us of what we have learned in the scriptures if we aren’t listening?  As difficult as it may be in our culture, I have to slow down enough and have some quiet space to hear from God’s Holy Spirit.  Filling every minute with noise and activity will drown out His voice.  Our triune God is a gentleman and won’t force Himself on us.  We must intentionally invite Him with a hospitable heart and mind.

 

In addition, I shouldn’t grieve or quench the Holy Spirit.  Ephesians 4 gives us a list of things that do just that, including but not limited to, living like unbelievers, lying, stealing, unforgiveness and sexual immorality.  We all mess up.  It’s inevitable, but its living self-focused instead of God focused that steers us off course.  Continuing in unconfessed sin will muffle the guidance of the Holy Spirit more and more the longer it goes on.

 

Your Turn

 

The challenge, should you choose to accept it, is to thank God for the rumble strips in your life.  And if you can’t think of any, establish some.  Borrow mine or pray and listen for the Holy Spirit’s guidance on what you should do to keep yourself on the right road.

 

By the way, after I started writing this I thought of how the newer makes and models of cars actually have built in alarms for when we veer out of our lane.  So rumble strips could become obsolete.  As I said earlier, I’m nothing if not current.  But we can choose to disable those alarms if we want.  That could be dangerous.  As it would be for me to drive through life without God’s Word, accountability and the Holy Spirit.

 

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Comments

  1. Susan Chapman Sikes says

    May 12, 2023 at 7:40 am

    What a great analogy and reminder. Thank you for sharing!

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    • Lauren says

      May 12, 2023 at 3:41 pm

      Thank you, Susan.

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  2. Barbara Harper says

    May 12, 2023 at 8:58 am

    I knew what rumble strips were, but I didn’t know that’s what they were called. That’s a great analogy to the gifts God has given us to help us keep on track. I’d agree with all yours, especially God’s Word. I’d add the church–the preaching and teaching as well as the community. Though perhaps that comes under God’s Word and accountability.

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    • Lauren says

      May 12, 2023 at 3:41 pm

      The church is a great addition, Barbara!

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  3. Rebecca Vendetti says

    May 12, 2023 at 7:16 pm

    I love all three of those practices! I think I most miss the accountability bit. I used to be really involved in small groups and Bible studies but those haven’t really come back yet in my circles post-COVID. They are so life giving!

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    • Lauren says

      May 16, 2023 at 10:05 am

      I agree. Life groups have sometimes been a struggle for me but when they work, they work so well!

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  4. Linda Stoll says

    May 14, 2023 at 9:34 pm

    rumble strips. that’s a cool concept, Lauren. they keep us rushing and racing. they slow us down and make us aware of what’s important.

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    • Lauren says

      May 16, 2023 at 10:04 am

      Agreed!

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