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Follow the Directions…and Grace and Truth Link Up

March 19, 2021 by Lauren 26 Comments

It’s National Let’s Laugh Day!  Who needs to celebrate?  I have a story for you that will make you laugh – most likely at me.  But I’m okay with that!

 

A few months ago I told y’all (here) about going on vacation with my best friend and her family.  The trip, though not without glitches, was glorious as was the amish friendship bread she made from the starters she brought with her.  I didn’t want a starter.  When you add my age to my goals, it does not equal cinnamon and sugar carbs.  I still don’t know the “new math”, but I know that doesn’t add up.  Alas, my husband and daughter batted their pretty eyes at me and I took one home.  I fed it and mushed it all week as the instructions stated, and then came baking day.

 

Finding four unsuspecting chumps, I mean friends, to take bread starters did not tickle my fancy.  So my husband and daughter convinced me to bake ALL the dough to freeze or give away in lieu of trashing the remaining 4 cups of dough.  It was a simpler, more innocent time.  I calculated that the 10 loaves of bread – yes you read that right – required me to quintuple the recipe and practically turn my kitchen into a commercial bakery.

 

As I started mixing ingredients, I ended up with a concoction demanding 15 eggs, 10 cups of flour, 5 boxes of pudding mix, etc., etc.  The monstrous mass demanded an upgrade to a bigger mixing bowl not once, but twice.  The one you see here in the picture is actually a cake topper.  I sent my husband to the grocery store not once, but twice.  It took all the strength in my biceps, as well as my husband’s to get it all mixed up.  I almost gave up once, but my husband exclaimed, “We’re over $20 deep into this bread now!”  So I persevered.

 

Tired and fully expecting a flop at this point, I squeezed the batter into 8 loaves instead of 10 and cooked them 4 at a time.  The first four loaves all stuck to the bottom.  The last four looked better.  Although a little heavy, they still tasted good.  So my crew demolished and froze the ugly ones and I gave the pretty(er) ones away.  And then I cleaned up the disaster that was my kitchen.  It took two days to get all the glue – I mean dough – off my countertops.

 

I read the recipe thoroughly.  But because I chose not to do “exactly” what it said, my product was not “exactly” what it should be.  This reminded me of how things usually turn out when I choose to try my own thing instead of following God’s holy instruction book.

 

The Bible, gets a bad rap when it is described as a list of do’s and don’ts  .  2 Timothy 3:16 tells us, “All Scripture is [a]inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for [b]training in righteousness;” NASB  God’s commands are not meant to restrict us, but to protect us.  They don’t deny us, they give us fullness of joy (Psalm 16:11).  Because God loves and us wants what’s best for us, he gives us guidance on how to live.  When we don’t follow it, or only adhere to the parts that sound good to us, we face much bigger disasters than my bread.

 

“But prove yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves.”  James 1:22 NASB

 

Now keep celebrating this made up, but worthwhile holiday.  Read a funny book, watch a comedy, play a game of Balderdash or Awkward Family Photos, or plan a date (even if it’s on FaceTime) with that friend who makes your drink come out of your nose.

 

And now it’s time for this week’s featured post!

 

I had such a hard time picking just one post to feature highlight this week.  I hope you will revisit last week’s link up and read several posts if you haven’t already.  But Karen of karengirlfriday.com acted as a balm for my soul.  The anti-biblical rhetoric I hear spewed on repeat of late makes me want to dive under my covers and never come out.  But Blessings in the Shadows of the Almighty’s Wings comforted me with reminders of his protection and shelter for me and mine.

 

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

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I Am Not Enough…and Grace and Truth Link Up

March 12, 2021 by Lauren 34 Comments

This past Monday the world observed International Women’s Day.  I know of and personally know many wonderful women worth celebrating.  And I’m thankful that women have and are fighting for equal rights and equal pay.  Women are just as worthy of success as anyone else with the same qualifications.  But I believe some messages of this movement miss the mark.  We (women and men) were not created to be completely independent of God or other people.

A simple google search of the phrase “I am enough” unearths multiple books, t-shirts, jewelry lines, canvas prints, a master class and a guided self-love meditation.  Self-help gurus shout from every platform, “I AM ENOUGH!”  “YOU ARE ENOUGH!”  In a world where every home improvement show and bikini-clad social media influencer nudges us toward comparison, it’s a nice thought.  But here’s the thing, it’s not true.

 

This message and the people spouting it are well-meaning, and very prevalent in this season.  The underlying message of building self-esteem, finding yourself worthy and loving who you are sounds good – even needed – in a climate of vicious bullying and cancel culture.  And yet the same people who tell us that we are inherently beautiful also want to sell us billions of dollars in diet programs and products and who-knows-how much in exercise equipment, apparel and gym memberships.  Also, we need to add to the Kardashian’s millions by using their cosmetic kits.  So which is it?  I am enough?  Or do I need all these things to make me better?

 

I would not dream of speaking for you, but I will tell you how I feel about myself.  Most definitely, I am NOT enough!  This will not be a popular sentiment, but I have not been, nor will I ever be in and of myself, enough!  If I measure myself against this world’s standards, there will always be someone smarter, prettier, more fit, more popular and who has nicer things!  So how could I possibly be satisfied navel-gazing at myself?  I can tell you without hesitation that I am not worthy, deserving or anywhere near perfect.  There is something in me that will always keep me from being enough.  But I am okay with that, because…

 

He is enough.

 

I don’t have to possess a supermodel’s body or perfectly symmetrical facial features.  Almighty God, with reverence, made me wonderful (Psalm 139:14)

 

Never will I be the strongest or the smartest.  That’s okay.  Philippians 4:13 says “I can do all things through him who gives me strength.”  And I might as well cease striving in my own power because apart from God’s Holy Son, Jesus, I can do nothing.  (John 15:5)

 

I don’t have to dot every i or cross every t.  Through Jesus, God forgives me for all my sins (Ephesians 1:7).  Jesus died so I won’t have to be “good enough” (Galatians 2:21).  I could never be righteous without His intervention.

 

As a middle aged, middle class woman, the probability of me gaining success according to our culture’s standards is low.  But because of God’s blessings, I “abound in every good work” (2 Corinthians 9:8).

 

I no longer feel the need to hide my imperfections, because God’s power shines brightest through my weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9).

 

Whether or not I am in a romantic relationship or in the popular group, I am chosen and cherished by the Lord Jesus Christ (Ephesians 1:4, 1 Peter 2:9).

 

I could tell myself all day long that I’m enough.  But a part of me knows that something is missing without Jesus.  It’s not always easy to drown out the voices in my head and see myself the way God sees me.  The loud messages of the world don’t line up.  But the truth is…I can’t define my value.  God’s word already describes me as a beloved daughter of the King of all Kings.  What could be better than that?

 

And now for this week’s featured post!

 

AnnMarie of  busyblessedwomen.com wrote about The God Who Sees Me last week.  I didn’t realize how much I needed to explore this aspect of God’s character.  In a world that is so noisy, it can be hard to feel truly seen, truly known and loved.  But in God we are!  Thanks, AnnMarie, for linking up with Grace and Truth.

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