Dear Teenage Daughter,
You aren’t entitled to obey only when you feel like it.
You aren’t entitled to make all your own decisions.
You aren’t entitled to an allowance without contributing to the chores in our household.
You aren’t entitled to stay out as late as you want.
You aren’t entitled to all the fineries and material goods that your friends can afford.
You aren’t entitled to free speech at the expense of others’ feelings.
You aren’t entitled to a 24 hour parent ATM.
You aren’t entitled to treat your parent like an on-call uber, cook or maid.
You aren’t entitled to take your anger and frustration out on those who love you.
And you aren’t entitled to the freedoms of adulthood with none of the responsibility.
But Dear Teenage Daughter,
I am not entitled to reciprocate when you lash out.
I am not entitled to a stress and drama-free home.
I am not entitled to build a protective bubble to keep you from hurting or stumbling.
I am not entitled to singular control over my time and resources.
I am not entitled to a clutterless existence.
I am not entitled to make all your decisions for you.
I am not entitled to discipline out of pride or anger.
I am not entitled to lay on a guilt trip when you’d rather not be with me.
I am not entitled to behavior from you that makes me “look good”.
And I am not entitled to keep you a little girl forever.
But just maybe, there is enough grace to cover us both. I love you.
For of His fullness [a]we have all received, and [b]grace upon grace. John 1:16
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People are Hard to Hate Up Close by Laurie Hess of Meditations in Motion.
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