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The Maiden Monthly Muster of 2020 and Grace & Truth Link Up

January 30, 2020 by Lauren 26 Comments

Does anyone else feel like January has been 87 days long?  I think I’ve lived many lives since New Year’s Eve!

 

Family

My Baylor Bears played in the Sugar Bowl on New Year’s Day, so we spent January 1st hanging, working a jigsaw puzzle and watching with my parents and my PawPaw.  We would soon learn that we are losing our beloved coach to the NFL, but word has it that His replacement brings a lot to the table.  Now I have to wait until August to find out!  Baylor basketball is coming in HOT (men’s team #1 and women’s #2), but alas, I don’t dig hoops.

 

Allie’s choir served as the chorus for her high school’s theater production of Mary Poppins, so we are fighting against with the urge to speak primarily in a British accent.  And others are struggling as they hear it!  Allie also attended LIVE weekend – a discipleship retreat for teens at our church.  We had 240 plus teenagers attend!   The worship, preaching, fellowship and small group time make it the best weekend of her year.

 

While she was doing that, Chuck and I escaped with the help of our parents to try to relax from the weight of family issues and recent tragedies.  Oh, and we celebrated 21 years of loving and supporting each other.  I can’t begin to explain how grateful I am that Chuck chose me and continues to choose me every day.  There is no one I prefer in the good times and we keep holding each other up through the bad.  Thank you, Lord.

 

Friends

I had the blessing of helping some great friends with medical appointments.  I took one to the hospital for hip replacement surgery and sat with her granddaughter for the duration.  The next day I went with a childhood friend to an MRI appointment.  Then I got to take a meal to a recovering mentor.  I know most of us – myself included – have a hard time asking for help.  I often feel like it’s an imposition.  But I can honestly say, it is such an honor for me to be asked to support a friend.  So don’t deprive me (or your friends) of an honor by trying to do the thing all by yourself.

 

Every week I get to meet with a group of women who refer to themselves as “life group misfits”.  We’ve all had trouble fitting into and maintaining a place in traditional church life groups.  But we found each other and call ourselves “Lady Friends”.  That name brings me almost as much joy as being in the presence of these precious, funny and real women.  And I finally had enough flex in my daytime schedule to squeeze in lunch with another lovely.  We had so much to catch up on that she brought a list of things to make sure we covered!  I loved it.  She made me feel like a celebrity being interviewed on a talk show!  Then the two of us and our husbands double dated the next night.  We planned to eat a progressive dinner, going to three different restaurants for appetizer, entree and dessert.  Well, it was Saturday night in a Dallas suburb  so we should have known wait times would slow us down.  We only made it two places, but had fun in the process.

 

Entertainment

When I could steal a few moments alone to read, I devoured Why I Hate Green Beans:  And Other Confessions about Relationships, Reality TV, and How we See Ourselves by Lincee Ray.  This felt like laughing and relating with a girlfriend.  And last I checked it was free on Kindle!  Sharing Love Abundantly in Special Needs Families:  The Five Love Languages for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities by Gary Chapman was a little disappointing.  I learned so much from his original Love Language book, so it seemed like a good idea to read this with a young mom I’m mentoring.  We found it, quite frankly, lame.  But it gave me one really good idea.  So there’s that.  And I finally came back to and finished Rosemary:  The Hidden Kennedy Daughter by Kate Clifford Larson.

 

We caved into some FOMO and subscribed to Disney+.  Our first show?  High School Musical the Musical the Series.  We loved it.  Clunkiest name for a series ever, but we pushed through.  And having all the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse videos available for Shelby on demand is both a good and a bad thing.  During the Christmas hiatus, I enjoyed catching old episodes of Wings, but now all our regularly scheduled programs are back in full force.  Plus, it’s awards show season.  Something I kind of like (as long as I can fast forward through the boring parts), and my husband kinda hates.  Even though we didn’t watch any of the Grammy’s, we watched Gayle King’s Grammy Special!

 

We only went to the movies one day this month, but made up for it by watching two in a row.  Knives Out is a fantastically fun Clue-style who done it with lots of twists and surprises.  Just Mercy wrenched my heart, opened my eyes, and called me to do better.  I highly recommend both. And I added a couple more podcasts to my earbuds.  After hearing at least 10 people rave about Dolly Parton’s America, I am now 4 episodes in.  So good.  I have never really been a Dolly fan, but she is pretty fascinating.  I also downloaded Showmance:  The Glee Recap Edition.  I loved the show (the first two seasons anyway), but the jury is still out on the pod. 

 

My husband and I still carry heavy burdens of grief and struggle for on-going things in our families.  We humbly ask you to continue to bring us and our loved ones before the throne of our Heavenly Father.  Your prayers mean so much.

 

Thanks for looking over my January with me.  What did you do in yours?

 

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A Monthly Muster for May

May 30, 2019 by Lauren 32 Comments

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I love alliteration.  But I don’t historically love May, or Maycember as I’ve heard it referred as for the first time this year.  All the end of school activities make this month just as busy as December, but in my opinion, not nearly as fun.  On the day this goes live on the world wide web, my kids are experiencing their first day off for a much needed summer break.  From studies anyway.  Now that one of mine is headed toward high school sports, the athletic commitments never stop.

 

This month we have had 2 choir concerts, 2 athletic banquets, 3 year end celebrations, 2 volleyball tournaments and private lessons, a choir contest and audition, and more finals and state mandated tests than I can count on both hands.  And somehow we managed to sneak in a visit from our daughter-in-law and grandkids, 2 date nights – one with another couple, and getting the kids to both sets of grandparents.

 

In our SPARE time, we took our special needs daughter to see DUMBO (not earth shattering, but cute), and rented The Hate U Give as a family.  If you haven’t seen this movie, I recommend it for it’s poignant portrayal of modern day race relations, told from the vantage point of a teen.  That part is important if you want a 14 year old to watch with you.  And speaking of the constant search for something Miss I-have-all-the-entertainment-I-need-on-my-phone will watch and discuss with us, we have landed on Beverly Hills 90210.  The OG.  Starting with season 1.  I don’t mind at all taking a trip back to the cross country move of Brandon and Brenda Walsh, but my husband is less than thrilled.  He gets out voted, though, because my daughter is into it!  We also wrapped up season two of Cobra Kai.  I’m not sure I can recommend this one across the board.  There is more language and course talk than I usually indulge in, but the content was so much fun for this child of the 80’s.  One minute a 45 year old Johnny is driving his Camaro (yes, the same one) down the highway, and the next he is daydreaming back to the All-Valley Karate Championship.  So campy and fabulous.

 

In activities a little more cerebral, I picked up some good books.  Stolen Jesus:  An Unconventional Search for the Real Savior and Sacred Ground, Sticky Floors:  How Less-Than-Perfect Parents Can Raise (Kind of) Great Kids by Jami Amerine top the list.  If you have yet to discover this little gem of an author, I am pleased to make your introduction.  She writes beautifully real, broken and Jesus filled words.  She also blogs at sacredgroundstickyfloors.com.  Do yourself a favor and subscribe.  As a part of my ongoing efforts to improve this craft of writing, I devoured The Elements of Style by William Strunk Jr and Big Magic:  Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert – content as different as day and night.  And just in time for your light and breezy summer reading, It’s a Love Story:  From Happily to Ever After by Lincee Ray.  Inside this pretty pink jacket you’ll find funny, clever and touching personal anecdotes wrapped up in a Jesus bow.  She podcasts too for those obsessed with pop culture (and especially the Bachelor franchise).  I’m currently working my way through The Child From the Sea by Elizabeth Goudge.  This lengthy piece of fiction is like a cross between Ken Follett and L.M. Montgomery.

 

I found some new favorites that I want to share with you in case you happen to be in the market for some new favorites. 

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My current snack obsession is Enlightened Roasted Broad Bean Crisps in Mesquite BBQ flavor.  I know, I know.  What is a broad bean and how can they possibly taste good?  I don’t know and I don’t know.  But I LOVE them.  They are low in calories, high in protein and fiber, and gluten-free all while masquerading as a delicious, crunchy carb!  I’m also a new devotee of this Vitamin C Foot Cream.  As a passionate fan of the flip-flop, my feet stay about as soft as asphalt – until now.  I slather this lotion on after every shower and my feet are now as supple as 45 year old skin can expect to get.

 

I’ll round out the wrap-up with what is most important.  As God continues to prick my heart with lessons on obedience, I am listening to the audio book The Sacred Echo by Margaret Feinburg on the recommendation of my life group and studying Discerning the Voice of God by Priscilla Shirer with said Life Group.  Both books cover the topic of hearing from God in different ways.  I’m circling the Shirer book for the second time as well as God Moments:  Recognizing and Remembering God’s Presence in Your Life by Alan D. Wright.  I ordered this last one on a whim after telling a friend how ginormously it changed my prayer life years ago.

 

A Memorial Day weekend celebrating my daughter’s spiritual birthday and enjoying the company of family made the already-too-hot days a little sweeter.  I pray in the coming week you take time for that which feeds your soul.  Ready or not, summer, here we come!

 

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