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One Minute… Makes a Big Difference!

January 1, 2021 by Lauren 22 Comments

As we all breathe a sigh of relief to see 2020 go, I want to wish you a Happy New Year, bloggy friends!!  On this first day of 2021, I find myself recovering from Covid-19, so I decided to loan my web space to Shannon Pugh.  Although she doesn’t call herself a writer, she uses words beautifully and faithfully in a monthly newsletter.  She and her ministry team mean so much to my family, and I couldn’t wait to share her thoughts on the turning of the calendar with you:

 

I’m not an anthropology buff.  To be honest, I had to look up the word “anthropology” to make sure it actually means what I thought it meant (the study of human societies and cultures).  But from what I do know about the history of humanity across the ages, every culture has developed some sort of system for marking the passage of time.  Our current system of seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades, etc. is apparently called the “Gregorian calendar”… I learned something new today!  Thanks Wikipedia!  At IBC [Irving Bible Church], we observe Advent and Lent, which are part of the Liturgical year that many denominations of Christianity follow.

Not only do we use these systems to mark the passage of time, but we also use them to give meaning to the passage of time.  We assign importance to specific dates like birthdays, holidays, anniversaries of important events and even seasons.  Again, this is across cultures and over the course of human history.  Time is important!

And I think that’s because we know, deep down, that our lives have a purpose.  It’s not just about surviving as long as possible and then dying as painlessly as possible.  It’s about making daily choices to better the world around us in some way.  For me, it’s about making life on earth as much like heaven as it can possibly be.  May Your kingdom come, Lord, may Your will and work be done on earth, as it already is in heaven.

There’s nothing magical about January 1st — really, it’s just the day after December 31st (and both of those are just words and numbers that help us mark the passing of time).  However, those days have had special importance for hundreds and hundreds of years.  Because, although nothing actually changes when the clock turns to 12:00 on January 1st, it’s an opportunity for us to realign our priorities and renew our commitment to make the world around us a better place, one moment at a time.

I, for one, don’t want life to just float by and slip through my hands.  But that requires me to be intentional about how I act and react on a daily basis… not just the big events, but the little decisions I make moment-by-moment.  So each year I take some time in December and January to look back and look forward.  I use a tool that was given to me by a mentor years ago, and I can’t overstate how much it’s changed the way I approach each new year.  That tiny, seemingly insignificant difference between 11:59pm on December 31st and 12:00am on January 1st has become  a chance for me to try to end each year having done my best to made the world a better place in even just the tiniest way.

If you would like to join me in looking back and looking forward, you can find the questions I use here.  Nothing will magically change on January 1, 2021 (as much as we would like it to!)  The only thing we have control over is the way we approach each minute, hour, day, week, and month.  When we choose to do that with the goal of improving the world around us, it really truly does make a difference!

 

Shannon Pugh taught special education for 9 years before leading the special needs ministry at Irving Bible Church in the Dallas, Texas area.  She has held that role since 2012 – first as a volunteer, then part-time staff and now full-time.

 

And now for this week’s featured post!

 

All of my co-hosts on this link up are excellent writers, but I try not to feature them here (although I hope you visit each of their sites regularly).  Sometimes, though, their words are too good not to share with you.  Heather Hart of candidlychristian.com wrote about the most important part of the Christmas season (really any season) in How to Pray for the Unsaved at Christmas.  Praying for and sharing the love of Jesus with those who don’t yet know Him lends others the hope we feel during Advent.  And I think everyone could use this kind of hope.  Always, and especially right now.

 

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A Weary World Rejoices…and Grace and Truth Link Up

December 25, 2020 by Lauren 26 Comments

A coronavirus holiday season lacks in the festive department for this pseudo-elf, and my teenager prefers not to do too much with the family.  That is my state of the situation address.  But I tried my best to “Christmas” (if I may use it as a verb), which included WAY more cheesy holiday movies and shows than usual – 15+ in 22 days.  I won’t bore you with all the titles but you can ask me if you want recommendations.  I will tell you that if you like the Hallmark-type flicks, Midnight at the Magnolia on Netflix is really a New Year’s movie.   You should put on your agenda this week.

 

The sweet hubs and I took our Shelby to THREE drive thru events.  This seems to be everyone’s solution for distancing.  Two were forgettable, while the one put on by the Dallas Children’s Theater delighted us.

 

My Allie’s high school jazz choir delivered singing Christmas cards (in the form of front yard caroling) as a fundraiser for two of the four weekends this month.  We hired them one night and invited neighbors to come outside for a melodious and socially distanced treat.  A good friend of Allie’s invited her to see her dance in The Nutcracker while Chuck and I went to an outdoor version of the classic with friends at Lake Grapevine!  Our school also managed to put on a safe Winter Choir concert for us to witness the culmination of a semester’s work.  Allie sang with two choirs and performed a solo rendition of “White Christmas”.  It always thrills me to hear my songbird perform. To watch and listen, click here. 

 

I managed to watch a couple of non-Holiday related things.  The King’s Speech, Joy and the Netflix series Away fascinated and entertained us.  I will warn you ahead of time that the streaming giant opted not to bring Away back for a second season, but the one is worth watching anyway.  And we actually went to the theater to see Honest Thief and a free preview Premiere of WW84 (that’s Wonder Woman 1984 if you haven’t been waiting with baited breath for this one like me).  If you enjoy Wonder Woman at all – SEE THIS.  And watch for the fun surprise cameo.  My only complaint is that when she is supposed to be sick, weak and tired, Gal Gadot still looks better than 99.9% of us.  I guess that’s part of the “wonder” of this woman.

 

My teenager finished up her exams just in time for our son and 4 littles to descend on us for a few days.  Chaos and fun and festive activities ensued.  My parents, sisters and families and brother-in-law’s family came to see us and the out of town guests in the front yard with masks.  Boy will I be thankful when we don’t have to be so careful or so brief.  As I write this, we have just canceled our plans to attend Christmas Eve service at church, and a road trip to spend a couple of days with my in-laws.  My husband and one daughter tested positive for Covid.  Merry Christmas to us.

 

To change gears a little, I see the title of this blog post everywhere right now.  Most of us relate to this lyric from “O Holy Night” to some extent.  This month, and this year, included good moments, milestones and celebrations.  But also more bad moments, grief and tragedy than I sometimes thought I could endure.  Nights filled with tears of grief are far from “silent”, and I see a lot chaos when “Away in a Manger” says things are “calm and bright”.  But the words of my favorite carol explain how we can rejoice even though we feel weary:

Long lay the world in sin and error pining,
Till He appear’d and the soul felt its worth.

We make mistakes and sin against our creator.  But because Jesus came here and was born in that smelly barn, we have worth and can know our worth.  God found us not just worthy of creating, but worthy of saving – worthy of love and relationship with Him – worthy of sending His only son to die in our place.  What a sacrifice.  What a Savior!

 

We find a “thrill of hope” that He came and that He will come back for those who love Him.  And I can hardly contain myself when I think of what He will usher in when He comes again.

Truly He taught us to love one another;
His law is love and His gospel is peace.
Chains shall He break for the slave is our brother;
And in His name all oppression shall cease.

We don’t carry out His laws perfectly here, which is why peace can feel so elusive.  But one day, He promises to set all things right.  I can’t stop the grateful tears now anticipating this (although there probably is some fatigue and disappointment mingled in those tears).  But even here, even in 2020, trusting in Him and believing that all He says is true can break our chains and fill us with a love and peace like no other.  This is my “Grown Up Christmas List” for us all.  Better yet, this is my prayer.  That you rejoice in Christ on this day and all the rest.

 

Merry Christmas,

And now for this week’s featured post!

 

Donna from Serenity in Suffering wrote a post that beautifully encapsulates the theme of my month end review.  When You are too Weary to Rejoice speaks to the heaviness I feel right now, but offers hope, encouragement and even prescriptions for overcoming that weariness.  Thank you, Donna.

 

 

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