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God is Good…But Life is Still Hard and Grace and Truth Link Up

March 6, 2020 by Lauren 22 Comments

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You would plunge me into a slime pit so that even my clothes would detest me.  Job 9:31

I have daughters.  I endured the slime stage, buying gallons of glue and colored sparkles, praying my kitchen would soon recover.  And I have heard my jeans groan and curse, “For the love of all things good, woman, eat a salad!”  But that might be where my similarities to Job of the Bible end.  And yet, there are things happening that seem unreal, unfair, and harsh.

 

I hate to be vague, but it’s not my story to tell.  And yet I’m on this life-altering roller coaster with those I love.  I’m waiting for word and crying the tears and taking pills so I can sleep.  I’m supporting and loving in inadequate ways and hitting my knees over and over until I no longer know what to pray.  Like no other time in recent years I am racing to spend time with God every day because I don’t know what else to do.  And that time lead me to the book of Job this week.

 

To summarize the story of Job (Did you know you can SparksNotes stories of the Bible?  Who knew?), this wealthy, righteous man was tortured by Satan to prove his faithfulness to God.  In the course of one day, Job receives word that his livestock, servants and all 10 children have died.  He then loses his own health as he breaks out in painful, disgusting sores from head to toe.

 

As the story progresses and Job endures his many hardships, he is quoted as saying, “I have no peace, no quietness; I have no rest, but only turmoil.” (Job 3:26).  And “For sighing has become my daily food; my groans pour out like water.”  (3:24).  “When I lie down I think, ‘How long before I get up?’  The night drags on, and I toss and turn until dawn.” (7:4)  Poor guy didn’t have access to Ambien.  “Therefore I will not keep silent; I will speak out in the anguish of my spirit, I will complain in the bitterness of my soul.”  (7:11)

 

Maybe you don’t consider yourself blameless like Job (I know I don’t!), and maybe you haven’t lost EVERYTHING.  But can you relate to any of these things he said?  Sleepless nights, no appetite, bitterness, turmoil in your spirit?  Any similar feelings?  Me too.  And yet after everything, Job still acknowledges God with praises.  “The Spirit of God has made me; the breath of the Almighty gives me life.”  (33:4)  “God’s voice thunders in marvelous ways; he does great things beyond our understanding.”  (37:5)

 

Perhaps the most encouraging part of Job’s experience is his confession of the deeper knowledge and intimacy He enjoyed with God after having lost everything and experienced God’s faithfulness through to the other side.  He says, “My ears had heard of you but now my eyes have seen you.”  (42:5)  “How great is God – beyond our understanding!” (36:26)

 

In the midst of Job’s heartache – before any earthly blessing was restored to him – he exclaimed, “I know that my redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand on the earth.”  (19:25)  When all else slips away, we can cling to that.

 

And now for this week’s featured post!

Mini Delights by Jennifer of teawithjennifer.blog.  

Most of us are so busy and distracted and noisy that I’m afraid we are forgetting how to relax, be with our own thoughts and even use our imaginations!  Our relationships, creativity and attention spans are suffering.  Jennifer doesn’t preach at your about it like I just did (good grief), but her short and sweet post may be just the mental vacation you need today.  Hop on over to her sight and take a deep breath while you are there.

 

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.

Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link Up

Grace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

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Grace&Truth-Rules21.)  Following your hosts via their blog and social media channels is not mandatory, but appreciated!
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Farewell to February…and Grace and Truth Link Up

February 28, 2020 by Lauren 32 Comments

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Our shortest month is one day longer this year, but it still flew by for me.  Some real stuff happened in the midst of the red and pink, the hearts and flowers.  We dabbled in a little of that.  I gave my beloved some candy and a card and he reciprocated with a card and some roses.  We didn’t do anything special, but even staying in is better when he’s with me.

 

I had an MRI of one foot to get a diagnosis of achilles tendonosis in both.  The doctor prescribed cushier shoes and heel lift inserts as well as changing my exercise to biking or swimming to stay off my feet as much as possible.  I’m trying to be very compliant as I pray for the best.  I tweaked my lower back as well, so I’m feeling about a hundred years old right now.  Soft violin music and prayers appreciated.

 

I had a day date with my younger sister to see Little Women.  If it’s long gone from your theater, make yourself a reminder to watch it at home as soon as it becomes available.  Seeing this beautiful adaptation of a sister story with my sister made it all the more perfect.  I also enjoyed a couple of lunch dates with girlfriends – always a treat.  And the socializing peaked with a trip to a gorgeous ranch in Round Top, Texas with two long time friends and one brand new!  We slept late, stayed in our pajamas, read, scrapbooked (Not me.  No talent for that here.  My kids will have to search through my Facebook account to piece together their childhood.), and watched movies.  I can’t remember a time when I’ve done so little.  And it was much needed.

 

In addition to my usual yoga classes, I got to teach a couple of indoor cycling classes this month.  I also attended a funeral after a family near and dear to us unexpectedly lost their husband and father.

 

Shelby won a gold medal in the State Special Olympics Bowling Tournament.  She loves to ramp bowl and due to a lack of volunteers, I got to assist her this year!  Then the very next day, she attended Tim Tebow’s Night to Shine special needs prom.  It makes me cry every year to see the lengths all these local churches go to so that my girl and others like her experience a special, magical night.  And it means all the more to me that my best friend and her whole family volunteered at the same event in Alabama.  We experience it together, but apart.

 

Thanks to a generous gift from her Nana and Papa, Allie started voice lessons.  Her instructor holds a doctoral degree in music and sang with the London opera before moving to Texas.  What a blessing for her to pour into Allie.  Our girl also keeps busy as a member of Hope Squad – an organization of students selected by their peers working to prevent teen suicide.  And now she has been invited to help build a student worship team at church.  Yay!

 

Two of my people celebrate birthdays in February.  Allie turned 15 on the 23rd.  She hosted a small sleepover with some girls from church and as this is published is still trying to get her school friends together for a “hang”.  Chuck turned…a little older than 15 on the 22nd, and for the past 15 years has been birthday overshadowed by a pretty blonde.  We did, however take him out to eat and I made a batch of his favorite cookies.

 

To entertain ourselves we tried two new network TV shows.  I would skip Indebted if I were you.  As a youth I loved The Nanny and Wings, so I wanted to see these stars, but the show is pretty dumb and poorly acted.  We will continue to watch Zooey’s Extraordinary Playlist, which is weird but fun.  And we finally started the Mandalorian and season 3 of The Crown.  We have finished neither but remain optimistic about both.

 

I would love to hear the highlights of your month.  And as always, I love you, I thank you, and I hope March treats you well.

 

And now for this week’s featured post!

Responding to Your Teenager’s Attitude by Angie Johnson of keepingthetiethatbinds.com.  

Although don’t necessarily think I have “earned” my children’s respect, God certainly demands it.  So I couldn’t resist piggy-backing on this post since I wrote about the same types of issues just last week with this post.  Hope over and give Angie’s take a once over.

 

Now for this week’s link-up! Let’s bless and encourage one another in our walk with the Lord.Grace & Truth : A Weekly Christian Link Up

Grace & Truth exists to point people to Jesus! We hope this link-up will be a source of encouragement every week. If you’re a blogger, we hope you’ll use this space as a way to meet new friends within the Christian blogging community. If you’re a reader, we hope that you’ll encounter new bloggers that love Jesus as much as you do! Most of all, we hope you’ll meet Jesus here.

Join us each Friday for the Grace and Truth Link-Up!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

 

 

Maree Dee

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Lauren Sparks

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Heather Hart & Valerie Riese

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Lisa Burgess

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1.)  Following your hosts via their blog and social media channels is not mandatory, but appreciated!

To receive a weekly reminder of when the link-up goes live subscribe to laurensparks.net in the right hand column of this page.

2.) Leave 1-2 of your most recent CHRISTIAN LIVING posts. Please do not link DIY, Crafts, Recipes, etc. We will delete these links. We also reserve the right to remove articles that don’t align with the theme or are deemed by the hostesses to be inappropriate.

3.) Visit 1-2 other links and leave a meaningful comment! We want to encourage community among us, so please don’t link and run!

4.) We sort all links randomly – feel free to link as early or as late as you’d like. The playing field is even!

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5.) Grab a button or link back to encourage new linkers. It is not mandatory, but it is required to be featured.

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