I think it’s possible that my high school single handedly kept white shoe polish on store shelves in Waco, Texas in the early 90’s. How often the windows of our cars were covered in messages and crudely drawn pics was directly correlated to our level of popularity. One Friday afternoon I got in on the fun by decorating the trucks of the boy I was “dating” (the quotes denote loosely used terminology) and his best friend. The next day I parked my car in the high school parking lot and rode a yellow dog to a track meet. Upon returning to the school late that night, I saw what appeared to be mud all over my car. As I climbed off the bus with my friends, one of them said, “I don’t think that’s mud.”
The boy I was “dating” (yes, still with the quotes) and his best friend recruited a little brother and searched pastures until they found an adequate supply of manure to fill a kitchen trash bag. They brought it up to the school and used I’m-not-sure-what to smear it all over the outside of my car. It was disgusting, it reeked and I couldn’t even see through the windshield to drive it somewhere to wash. A few friends – really good ones, I might add – helped me scrape enough off the windshield to see to drive a few blocks to a house much closer than mine to hose off the mess. The boys’ moms, who both adored me, were horrified to learn what they had done and demanded they apologize to me. I’m not so sure that punishment fit the crime.
I hope you haven’t lost your last meal because I do have a point in reliving this prank: Spiritual blindness. God’s word gives us many reasons we are to be in community with other believers. The older (and hopefully wiser) I get, the more I think we need one another desperately to combat spiritual blindness. What is spiritual blindness? Compellingtruth.org defines it as a condition of being “unable to see God or understand His message.” Although this definitely applies to non-believers, it also applies to believers in certain situations. Paul Tripp in his book Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands: People in Need of Change Helping People in Need of Change, says it “is the condition of every sinner…Yet few will realize its impact on the way they view themselves, God, others, and their situations. They are like those described in Romans 1, who think they are wise when really they are fools. They assume they think well when the thinking of their heart is actually foolish and futile.”
Spiritual blindness can be deceptive. When blinded to the inappropriateness of our thoughts or reactions to a situation, we are also usually blinded to our blindness. Was that clear as mud? Or manure? As John wrote to the church in Laodicea, “You say, ‘I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.’ But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, BLIND [emphasis mine] and naked” Revelation 3:17 We need to do life with others who are following hard after Jesus. And not “yes men”. Friends who will gently nudge us when we are heading in the wrong direction.
On that long ago evening when I looked at my car after a long and tiring day under the cover of night, I saw mud. But a friend who didn’t have as much to loose warned me of a much darker and smellier situation.
I am so grateful for the times when a loved one has spoken a little truth or told me a story from her life that turned on a light bulb for me. My human nature can override the righteousness of God before it even registers with me.
If you don’t have trusted Christ-followers in your life, I would plead with you to find ways to get involved in your local Bible-believing church and meet people. And if the friendships already exist, get real. Openly share your heart with one or two who have proven reliable. Ask them to keep you accountable to “walk in a manner worthy…” Colossians 1:10 NASB It’s risky to be vulnerable, but obedience to God demands it. And it’s worth it. A friend who can spot your poo and then stick around to help clean it up is a priceless treasure.
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E.xcellent article, Lauren. I am thankful for the brothers and sisters in Christ that God has brought in my life. Two gentlemen are a little older than me. One mentors me from a Christian Living perspective, and the other mentors me on life in general, and my platform as an author. I cannot express the gratitude toward God for bringing these people into my life. Thank you for sharing this “story” and your post. The verse from Colossians is my mission statement verse in life. It was a pleasure to meet you via #grace&truth. I hope to visit here again. Blessings to you and yours.
Thank you, Horace. You are a lucky man indeed to have two who are pouring into you. God must be doing great works thru you. Thank you for reading and commenting.
Wow. What a story! The value of “iron sharpening iron” friendship cannot be overstated. As society’s message of tolerance and false accusations of hate speech strengthen, Christians seem to be weakening in the area of speaking Truth in love. It take courage and humility to address the hard things – both for the person speaking and the one hearing. This is a practice we must fight to grow in.
I think you are right, Jana. It is almost a lost art. Loving does not necessarily mean agreeing!
WOW! What a story!! Great post though! Thanks so much for stopping by!!
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Deb
Thank you, Debbie!
“A friend who can spot your poo and then stick around to help clean it up is a priceless treasure.” That is a priceless quote right there, Lauren! So much food for thought in this inspiring post. A message that strikes close to my heart right now. So, without going into detail, I just want to say thank you for sharing this!
Shelbee
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I’m so glad it was meaningful to you, Shelbee. And thanks so much for taking the time to let me know.
Just clean it up and go on, some people will leave it for others though.
Good point!
Lauren, thanks for sharing this funny story. You were blessed to have friends who could stand the “poo,” and point it out!
I’m such a firm believer in your statement: “We need to do life with others who are following hard after Jesus.” Some think they don’t need it, but I beg to differ. We can become blind to our own sin. It’s actually pretty easy!
It is easy, unfortunately, isn’t it. Thanks for reading and commenting, Jerralea. It means so much to me.
Thanks so much for sharing about spiritual blindness. We are a forgetful people as the Israelites can attest to, and I am no different. It is important to keep our spiritual eyes fixed on the One who redeemed us.
Blessings,
You are so right, Karen.
“A friend who can spot your poo and then stick around to help clean it up is a priceless treasure.” This sentence made me laugh. I really am thankful for the true friends I have. If I fall off the rails they help me find my way back. I have never heard of anything like your story. I have seen people put saran wrap all over a car but not poop. That is hardcore.
It was hardcore! That’s why it makes a good story 😉
You are so right – we were thinking collectively this week! Only lobster rolls are a little more appetizing. Great post, Lauren.
Lobster rolls are a BUNCH more appetizing!
It is nice to have godly friends who don’t mind telling you when you’re a little off spiritually. Or, even a lot off. Those who speak truth to you are your real friends!
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I can see why that particular story is etched in your memory… But what a great reminder that we need our good friends to help us see clearly. Thanks for sharing! Stopping by from #raralinkup
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Oh, that was awful of them. You were so lucky to have such good friends! #BloggerClubUK
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