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What a Month!

January 29, 2021 by Lauren 23 Comments

I guess no one has to guess why I chose this title for a month-ending wrap up when that month is January 2021.  Or the 13th month of 2020 as some call it.  In case you don’t have a TV, computer or other news source, an angry mob stormed the United States Capitol on January 6.  This punctuated what has been a maddeningly contentious election season.  The riot led to the evacuation and lockdown of the Capitol, and five deaths.

 

We swore in the 46th president of our nation with a subdued but widely watched inauguration celebration on January 20.  We also welcomed the first black and asian female vice president in our history.  After watching it all, I vote for Amanda Gorman – the youngest inaugural poet ever – for president someday.  And from our homes we wait with bated breath for our chance at a Covid-19 vaccine while numbers of cases skyrocket.  I heard today that the virus has now touched every…single… county in the US.

 

Personally, my husband and I held down the fort as we exchanged one weird year for another.  We did manage to get away for the first time in at least a year to celebrate our 22nd anniversary.  I could really get all mushy here about Chuck and our time together, but I won’t.  I’ll just say that I feel sorry for all of you because you don’t get to be married to him.

 

We flew to Atlanta, feeling comfortable with our antibodies to once again fly on a plane.  Once settled in our hotel, we got massages and took ourselves to see the new Tom Hanks film News of the World.  I highly recommend it even though this was the most crowded theater we have been to since Covid turned us upside down.  There were another 6 whole people there.  The employees looks so bored that I wish we had needed their help with sometime besides our one popcorn tub and 2 drinks.

 

The next day my best friend and her husband drove over to spend the day with us.  We went to Marietta Diner, which appeared on Diners, Drive-Ins and Dives, for lunch and then I dragged everyone to the Gone with the Wind Museum.  We drove around looking at fancy historic homes (to see how the other half lives), and then got dressed up to go to JCT Kitchen for a fun and delicious anniversary dinner.  The next morning we ate breakfast at Pancake Social in Midtown and looked around Ponce City Market.  We love spending time with this precious couple and thank God for them in our lives.

 

As we landed back in the real world Sunday, I discovered 4 hacked accounts and family drama raging.  Oh, well.  The escape was nice while it lasted.  To distract myself, I read three books this month.  I first finished up a festive novel, A Christmas Surprise (Love in the Cascades #1) by Kimberly Rose Johnson, then completed Messy Grace:  How a Pastor with Gay Parents Learned to Love Others Without Sacrificing Conviction by Caleb Kaltenbach.  A lighter read, Two Weeks by Karen Kingsbury rounded out my literary pursuits.

 

Since we quarantined and recovered for part of the month, we binge watched like it was our job.  Especially since we decided to cancel Netflix at the end of this month.  Don’t come for me.  We pay for way too many services.  Maybe not the most productive or beneficial use of time, but the virus fatigue hit us like a shovel to the face.  We watched The Queen’s Gambit – a fascinating look at someone both tragic and gifted.  We loved series Virgin River and Sweet Magnolias, and the later reunited me with Brooke Elliott from Drop Dead Diva!

 

Allie joined us for season 3 of Cobra Kai.  Too much language for me, but oh, the 80’s nostalgia for this Karate Kid fan!  We rounded out our Netflix chilling with a very Hallmarkesque Falling Inn Love, George Clooney’s The Midnight Sky (very slow at first, but the ending packs a punch), and Garth Brooks:  The Road I’m On.  Fan or not (fan here!), his rise to fame intrigued us.   We also hopped over to Disney+ and checked out one episode of Prop Culture.  The one about The Muppet Show.

 

Over the next month we plan for a lot more reading and viewing time.  My oldest daughter underwent spinal fusion surgery yesterday to correct her 64% scoliosis curvature.  If all proceeded according to plan, (I’m writing this in the waiting room), she endured a 6-8 hour surgery and is now in ICU.  Due to the length and severity of the surgery, the powers that be here granted my husband and I an exception to both sit at the hospital. So grateful.  She faces a 6-8 week recovery now and we covet your prayers.  Thank you so much for being a community I can ask that of.

 

I also pray now for a calmer February.  How about you?

 

As always, I love you, I thank you, and I hope the next month treats you well.  Now for this week’s featured post!

 

It was hard to choose just one post to draw your attention this week.  So many great blogs, but I settled on All of Him Loves All of You by Wemi of reflectionsinthemess.com.  I always love Wemi’s writing, but this sweet encouragement about our even sweeter Lord may be just what you need to see this week.

 

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Top 10 Blog Posts of 2020

January 8, 2021 by Lauren 19 Comments

We have rounded another year.  I say “another” as if it retains any semblance to the others.  It doesn’t.  But I have lived (somewhat), written, felt and survived to do it all again.  I am so very thankful that the challenges of 2020 pushed me closer and closer to my Heavenly Father, but now I would like them to end (said in jest – sort of).

 

I want to thank you, bloggy friend, for taking the time to follow my writing and for any amount of time sacrificed to read these words.  It means more to me than you could possibly know.  And each and every comment left was like a present for me to open.  While I know now more than ever that I have no idea what topics the future will provide for this website, I still plan a little, holding it loosely.  Proverbs 19:21 says, Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails. NIV  I desire deeply for God’s purpose to be fulfilled here.  

 

So I looked back for research at what posts you all enjoyed most from last year.  This information helps me hone in on what is helpful and meaningful to you.  So I present to you (in case you missed any of these or would like to revisit) the top 10 most viewed posts from my site in 2020.  And thank you again being such an important community for me. (Also, take a gander at my list of the top posts of 2019 here.)

 

10.  The Good Thing V. the God Thing  February 7, 2020

Mark 1:40-45 tells the story of a man Jesus cured of leprosy only to command him to keep his miraculous healing to himself.  Common sense seems to say that Jesus’ ministry would only be enhanced by the sharing of this good news.  But God’s ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9), so we must seek His guidance in all things and not forge ahead using only our own feeble wisdom.

 

9.  God is Good…but Life is Still Hard  March 6, 2020

Certain situations and events from the year past drove me to study Job.  Good ol’ Job who lost his wealth, his family and finally his own health.  Although he lamented (this can be so healthy), Job never lost his faith in God.  In the midst of his heartache – before any earthly blessing was restored to him – Job exclaimed, “I know that my redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand on the earth.”  (19:25)  When all else slips away, we can cling to that.

 

8.  I Love…  February 14, 2020

This Valentine’s Day post only touched on romantic love.  It’s more about the many things and people I love and am thankful for in this life.  Even though I wrote this pre-Covid 19, reading the list again encouraged me.  So many of my treasures I still enjoy in the midst of it.  I hope it encourages you too.

 

7.  Better Late than Never – My Thoughts on Ahmaud Arbery, George Floyd and Others  June 5, 2020

As the death of several black Americans set our world on fire last summer, I struggled with whether or not my voice in matters of systemic racism and injustice mattered.  But I finally had to speak – with people that I know and with my computer keys.  I forced myself to examine my privilege and any biases and prejudices with which I view the world.  I don’t pretend to be “woke” to the things I’ve been blind to, but I am determined to keep working on it.  All life has value.  Genesis 1:27 says God created mankind in His own image.  The Bible lists no exceptions to this.  Black lives matter.

 

6.  The Pursuit  May 8, 2020

Using a different translation of Psalm 23:6 gave me a deepened perspective on God’s vast love for us. He created us, He loves us, and He wants us.  In this world that is still so full of uncertainty, I find great comfort in this.  In Him.

 

5.  Farewell to February  February 28, 2020

This was the only month end review to make the list.  Reading again about all my social activities pre-virus almost brought a tear to my eye.  May it be again soon, Lord.

 

4.  Today I Cannot…a Coronavirus Lament  May 15, 2020

The title of this one explains itself pretty well.  It took me a couple of months of lock down to reach this boiling point, but many of these things still grieve me (although some days my will to endure stays stronger than the moment in time I penned this).  Maybe you can relate to some of my things.  And maybe you just need to read the verse at the end for comfort and hope.

 

3.  A Conversation on Race, Part 1  June 19, 2020

Two fellow bloggers of color, Yvonne Chase and Calvonia Radford agreed to an interview on the issues of racial injustice that news journalists and the everyman with a cell phone brought to the forefront of our consciousness.  I will warn those of you that look like me that it’s not easy to read.  But I pray you will be prompted to examine your own heart against the feelings and facts they share. We still have a long way to go in the arena of race relations in America.  You might just find a good start here.  And don’t miss the links to their websites. Read Part II of this conversation as well.  “In a racist society, it is not enough to be non-racist, we must be anti-racist.”  – Angela Davis

 

2.  These are a Few of My Favorite Things (100 to Be Exact)  November 6, 2020

“If I am losing it beyond the normal parameters of losing it, I write out or say 100 things I am grateful for.”  – Jami Amerine.  She calls this a gratitude blitz and I tried my hand at it a couple of months ago.  That this list landed in the #2 spot tells me a lot about our need for positivity right now.  Hopefully something you read here will touch you, encourage you, entertain you or motivate you to make your own list.  And maybe we will decide – at least for a moment – that things really aren’t that bad.

 

1.   Dear Teenage Daughter, You Aren’t Entitled  February 21, 2020

I suspect from this #1 post that some of you deal with the challenges of an entitled generation.  I promise you that this letter, written two days before my teen’s  birthday has a happy ending.  And she gave me her permission and approval.  Part rant, part lesson and confession from me – it is all heart.  And I could not love her more.

 

This concludes a year in the life of this blogger.  A year I honestly hope we never see the likes of again.  But important lessons for me – and maybe you – reside here.  I hope you are informed or encouraged, and I pray God is glorified here.  I thank you, again, for being my reader friends and hope this relationship continues into the new year.  Also, happy birthday to the best Papa in the world (and Elvis).

 

And now for this week’s featured post!

 

In keeping with the theme of my post for this week, I chose Heather Hart’s Top Candid Posts of 2020 on candidlychristian.com.  I would love nothing better than for you to hop over and see some well-loved posts from one of my teammates at Grace and Truth (after you read mine of course).  😉

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